It DOES change your life but not always in a negative way. If you look at less social life as a terrible thing then fine but it isn't the worse thing that can happen. Just saying
I think its good that he is admitting that he still has to mature enough to even have a kid in the first place, and that's why he doesn't have any kids now.
Sorry if that was rude, what I mean is, it just doesn't seem to convey or capture the essence of the thread very well. Underage sex sounds so...idk.
Thank you for your input in this conversation. It's meant a lot. And for what it's worth, even if I was mature enough to have kids, I wouldn't. Because I fucking hate kids.
Sorry if I was rude. I was having fun with you Casey, and the thread title doesn't seem inentirely appropiate for whats in the thread, its my opinion I must admit, sorry if it came across rudely.
The word "underage" is probably where I would contest my point. "Underage sex" sounds illegal. Two people having sex before age 18, I don't see how the appropriate term is under age. But I digress, it doesn't matter much to me, so I'll leave my explanation at that.
Dude, you're 19, no big deal. I was a virgin until I was 20 and honestly, when it happened I felt like an idiot for putting so much thought into it.
Just because you have a baby doesn't make it the end of your life, that's a very bad stereotype. I know many young mothers who have 3 yr olds and themselves just have turned 18. And she's actually achieved more than me right now. I'm 21, I have an 8 1/2 month old, does that mean I've wasted my young adulthood? Surprisingly, a kid makes the majority of women grew up in the 10 months you're pregnant (not 9). The minority rather would go on acting like 12 yr olds. I was technically pregnant a week before my 20th birthday so technically I was still a teenager. But Mia hasn't ruined my life, I'm happier than ever, and I am so happy she added that sparkle in my life I never had. I've just got myself a job, I'm about to do part time study. It is possible to have a life and still have a family. I say, after losing my virginity at 16, I say to all the virgins, keep it and appreciate it.
Lost it at 17. Though honestly, the whole idea of virginity is about being pure. That is to say, if you're getting blow jobs in the back of a movie theatre and fingering chicks, TECHNICALLY you're a virgin, but...I wouldn't really call you pure either. The idea of virginity doesn't translate as well to recent times.
Hah. That reminds me of those purity-pledge girls who take it in the tailpipe, because, obviously, it "doesn't count."