The Advice Thread (formerly GSYWTLO)

Discussion in 'Serious Chat' started by Casual D, Dec 5, 2009.

  1. Theazninvasion68

    Theazninvasion68 It's like blood to a vampire, our tragic desire. LPA Super VIP

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    He's going out of his way to think about you and make you feel bad?

    Thats when you give up and let him, and you should ignore him.

    Eh?
     
  2. _cam_

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    mmm...the usual dinner date!? or maybe a picnic...a picnic is cute. OR whatever ideas that you have in ur mind right now. Go For IT! The thing is Girls love suprises! Just a simple bouquet of flowers for sure she'll love it.
     
  3. Gloomy Mushroom

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    I've broken up with him.

    :cry:
     
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  4. aki*lp

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    *hug* <3
     
  5. Theazninvasion68

    Theazninvasion68 It's like blood to a vampire, our tragic desire. LPA Super VIP

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    :hug: I'm sorry to hear...
     
  6. Harlz

    Harlz More Scared Of You Than You Are Of Me LPA Super Member

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    Yeah Im thinking, dinner date, grab a DVD and go back to mine.
    And Ill try and get to her work before she starts and the leave some flowers for her, she won't expect that at all...
     
  7. Arlene

    Arlene Oh what tangled webs we weave LPA Super Member

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    Aw, Sarah :hug: I'm guessing it was for the best, though.

    Harlz: I know this might be late, but that's a good idea :) I personally love simple romantic stuff. I don't like extravagant, expensive evenings. I dunno if you can cook, but cooking together might be more fun that going out :). Congrats, btw
     
  8. Gloomy Mushroom

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    This shit scares me everytime I take one of those tests and it says positive then negative. I'm becoming infertile. I don't care if I can't reproduce further down the track. I'm happy with one kid.
     
  9. _cam_

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    The Situation: Aika, my close friend asked me to ask his ex bf Alex why he chose to break up with her. Is that ok? I mean Me and Alex are not that close though we hang out each other with group of friends for a lil while but we're not that close and then I kinda feel that I'm putting myself in a situation wherein my particiaption would be out of league. I think its inappropriate. If we're close enough..maybe but you know I think its awkward.

    What do you think?
     
  10. Heavy is the Louis

    Heavy is the Louis No really, we are so back. LPA Team

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    Let's put it like this:

    If you are uncomfortable, don't do it. If you are, be mindful with how you go about doing it. Express your concerns with your friend who is asking you for this favor. You may proceed from there.
     
  11. _cam_

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    Louis: Yea, Im not going to do it. I'm not really that comfortable. I'll just have to explain that to Aika. I don't even know their ups and downs and love story. I do want to help Aika that's why I'm talking to Kris about this because she's more close to Alex and Kris is like the big sister. I think Aika just can't accept the fact that "maybe" Alex has a new girl.

    Thanks btw. :)
     
  12. Heavy is the Louis

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    No problem. :) If I were in your position, I would tell your friend to find out on their own. It's much better that way. It allows for much-needed closure.
     
  13. Gloomy Mushroom

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    Fuck me, my day started out so good, got all of my laybys and what do I come home to? A letter from real estate saying we merely passed inspection because of a smell that doesn't exist and a few cardboard boxes (full of stuff from Dad's house) that we can't put anywhere cos our one bedroom place can't fit it. Basically getting evicted and have to gather $800 for a bond of another place. Sigh, how the hell are we supposed to find that money in 30 days AND move with an infant?
     
  14. Arlene

    Arlene Oh what tangled webs we weave LPA Super Member

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    Sarah: That's just awful. I'm really sorry to hear that. I wish you the best of luck.

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    Life has been very fulfilling. :)
     
  15. Rocky

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    Is anyone married here? Preferably a guy? I really wonder if anyone here has been married, but while engaged or just in the process of being engaged (as in shopping for a ring and knowing she'll say 'yes' and all) you REALLY start wondering about wtf you're doing? I love my girl to death...I don't hang out with my friends much, and one of the friends I miss happens to be a girl that I used to be in uh, some sort of relationship with. I miss her ALOT...and it sucks...because I miss her because of THOSE times. I don't know wtf to think anymore...I don't know if I wish that her and I had a better relationship then or if I wish that we had a better relationship now...or if we had the relationship I have with my lady. :(
    No matter what, This sucks balls
     
  16. Arlene

    Arlene Oh what tangled webs we weave LPA Super Member

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    Rocky: Don't make any decisions until you've sorted this stuff out in your head. If you're still having thoughts about someone in your past you definitely shouldn't be thinking of marriage.

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    So I'm freaked out, astonished, and confused. On Thursday, my gramma received a mysterious call from my "brother" saying that he got stuck in Canada after a rock concert and a drug bust and jail and bail money etc. My "brother" asked her for money to sort through everything and begged her to not say anything to my parents so that he could explain it to them himself. Gramma, of course, believed the story without asking any questions and without speaking to anyone. She put $8,000 through Western Union for my "brother" to pick up in Canada (although she was told that it had to go through Madrid, Spain because that was the base plant....or some shit.) Eight thousand dollars. As in, 8 grand, 8K's, enough to buy me a damn car.

    And it was NOT my brother. My brother called my gramma's house today to ask her about something and she freaked out, asking if he was okay and what was going on, and my brother was completely dumbfounded. He had absolutely no idea what she was talking about. My brother, of course, was home and had been at work all week, and not at some random concert in Canada. So basically, my gramma got played and scammed big time, for $8,000 and I'm kinda freaked out. Just a week ago, my sister received a call from someone impersonating my cousin. And then someone called my gramma impersonating my brother. Connection?
    Was this just some random person scamming my family (who knew different people and how they would react?) Or was it someone who's felt wronged by us and is trying to get revenge in some way?
    I feel unsafe.
     
  17. Heavy is the Louis

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    That's fucking scary. I'd get the police on that right away.
     
  18. The Emptiness Machine

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    I agree with Louis. Call the authorities because that's just weird shit, and danger and your gramma is out 6,000$. Definitely a job for your police department or maybe even higher ups.
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    So. What the fuck, she start to completely avoid me in every fucking thing because her boyfriend breaks her heart? All I ever did was try to be her friend and be there for her and that's how I get repaid. With not even a goodbye or a thank you or a take care.

    Come on, can someone explain the logic of this to me? Call me an idiot 'cause I don't fucking understand.
     
  19. Arlene

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    Louis and Jesse: They called the freakin' FBI and they said that they couldn't do anything. They can't track whoever it was because they were using disposable phones and the money was sent through the Western Union so there wasn't any signing or paperwork or ID or anything.
    It's just awful. I mean, it was so dumb of my gramma to fall for it and not question anything or confide in my parents... I just wish we could know what happened, who it was and whatnot. It's scary. I don't know why someone would do something like that (if it were personal.) It could easily just be some professional scammer who does that shit but I dunno. :/
     
  20. 28thART

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    i guess this personne discovered that you family may have enough money, and he wanted to take more, but HOW YOUR GRAMMA DIDN'T RECOGNIZE YOUR BROTHER VOICE !
    in United Arab Emirates ( Dubai ), they start new job (some mother-fuckers), they call you and tell you : Sir you won with us 50.000$, please can you give me your informations!
    just to steal your informations and use it somewhere !
    :lol: he called me once, a strange number, and says, Sir you won with us 120.000$ !!!!
    from XXXX Bank ( a bank i don't even know it, and i don't even use banks yet ) !
    then i answered him that i didn't even participate in any banks to win such amount of money! and he says : SIIR IM TELLING YOU WON 120.000 $, give me your informations to send you the money!
    he was trying to convence me i won that money or WTF !!!
    be carefull Arlene, and ask you Gramma, to be as well ;) !
    wish they catch those mofo's !
     

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