im going to wait for marriage. even if i was engaged i would wait, because its all infactuation before that, and infactuation sucks big time. i only want to have sex with that one "special" guy. but whatever.....
OK, I'm an atheist, but I to respect the decisions of the people who would rather wait until marriage. But my feelings towards this are different. See a lot of you make it sound like you can only fall in love once. Thats not true at all....well I don't believe in fate, so in my opinion it's not true....but let's say you do wait until your married (this whole abscenence thing is to protect you from aids and #### right?) and you have sex, without a condom...ok the first thing that could happen is that your partner may have AIDS, or some kind of VD. OK scenario one you could get them from her (or him in a womans case). Then your screwed. But lets say you wait until marriage, have sex, then your wife dies of some freak accident....are you never going to fall in love again? No....your gonna fall in love again, and if you still want children, your not gonna wear protection. Now you've had sex with 2 people...but lets say neither one of them had any type of VD. Well the thing is, somehow, you can still get, whether either of them, or you had it....that sucks. Now I think that was confusing, but what I'm trying to get at is that there is no safe way to be safe from AIDS, or Hepatitis, or Herpes, or whatever. And people say absenence(which this whole thread really is about) is the only way....and it's not full proof. So anyways, if you don't wait till marriage, but you are in love, and have sex...thats the same as if you do get married while your in love, but your partner dies....if you understood that, that's good because I am making a point and not rambling, but it's kinda ####ed up. EDIT: Oh I forgot to answer haha. No I probably won't wait.
Iam christian but I dont go to church or beleave in god or any of the crap, no offence to people that do but yea I've been going out with my girlfriend for around a year and one month on the 30th and sex has come up many times but I keep telling her that THERES NO WAY IAM HAVING SEX before Iam merried meh thats just the way I feeel I want to have sex with the girl iam going to be with for the rest of my life you know and I hope that will be my girlfriend
I'm not Christian. I don't believe in God, so there's no pressure there. But I'm going to wait until I'm older. Maybe marriage, maybe not. It's like In.My.Skin said--you'll probably love more then one person in your life. But I want to wait until I'm older and in a relationship I think will last.
LOL! WOO! :chemist: [/b][/quote] It's like that one 'Free Willy' movie. Kinda. :chemist: Okay that's enough stupidity for me today.
It's like that one 'Free Willy' movie. Kinda. :chemist: Okay that's enough stupidity for me today. [/b][/quote] BWAHAHA! Free Willy! He's free of charge. Not a penny more. lol. Although, I think he doesn't like being called Willy. Maybe he just doesn't like me calling him that. :chemist: Yep, it's deffinitly that.
BWAHAHA! Free Willy! He's free of charge. Not a penny more. lol. Although, I think he doesn't like being called Willy. Maybe he just doesn't like me calling him that. :chemist: Yep, it's deffinitly that. [/b][/quote] LOL. Call him William. I'm sure he'd LOVE that. :chemist: