same here, i will wait till marrige, although it will be tough! had a girl that was wild, and truely if i wanted to, i could have, but no, and i am glad i didnt, she broke up and found out later that she was suisidle and crazy ta boot! i believe in God and made an oath, thus i must keep it
I'm a disbeliever of god. I believe if god really made people, why does he rule us? I believe we should rule ourselves, and make our own descisions. But to have people help guide us in the right direction, not force us. I respect your opinion though, I really do. It's nice to see opinions of other people, I like that.
I belive in God but I'm gonna do it when I'll feel it's gonna be the time. But I have to get a girlfriend first :chemist: .
Ok, I'm wierd... the first time I did it, it was a one night stand in Flordia with a girl I hardley knew... we were both on vaction you know and both looking to have fun... and you know #### happens, the 2nd time I did it was with my ex-girlfriend who I loved, but I guess she didn't want to return the feelings, but oh well... sex was still great :whistle:
Not to sound like a manwhore or anything lol, but I'll take some whenever the opportunity arises. I've got to actually like the person though.
I don't belive in god, but I repect ppl who wants that the first time to be special, I respect the differents points of ppl about sex.
There is allot of respect going around here, I like to see that instead of people criticizing others believes or disbelieves
I'm not religious at all, so I'm not worried about being punished by God, but I like hearing people saying that they want sex to special. Personally, I'm not sure if I'm going to wait until marriage or not...but I do know that I won't do it until I'm in a relationship where the love is mutual and where sex will be an experience that neither he nor I will want to share with anyone but each other. If we felt ready before marriage and we knew that we would be together for the rest of our lives anyway, I'm sure that it would be fine.
I'm gonna do what Britney Spears couldn't do! I belive in God, so u can guess what I think about sex..
Yeah same here...I'm desperate [/b][/quote] Well, I'm not really desperate but I'm going to try to have as much fun as I can!
I respect your decision and opinion on sex but you cant let one person tell you what to do with your personal/sex life. (god) You should do whatever you want but if you dont want to do it anyway, you do that and if you want it, go for it.
Well, I'm not really desperate but I'm going to try to have as much fun as I can! [/b][/quote] I think its a guy thing...they did this test in on this campus where a girl (pretty good looking) walked up too a guy and asked if he wanted sex...90% said yes! Similarly 10% for girls, no suprising though!
I really don't have an opinion. I'm a christian, so my religion pressures me into not, but society pressures me to. I really hate both. I am beginning to think more and more everyday that organized religion is bullshit. But honestly, I'm gonna wait till me and her are ready, and then I'm gonna wait to find a place where we won't get caught by my folks.
I haven't done it yet, mostly because I want my relationships based on something other than sex. The guy I'm with right now has done it, really regrets it, and (we had a long talk about all this) isn't going to push me into doing anything. But in case you're wondering, I don't believe in God, and I'm not planning on doing anything anytime soon.
Sex before marriage is fine IMO as long as you love that person. I'm Christian (unorthodox) but I'm gonna wait till I find the right guy.
I'm gonna wait for that special person and/or wait for marriage. I think it should be a special thing. I can't believe that people of my age (14) have already done it. Even if maybe the right person came along now, I would wait until in or after college. BTW: This is my choice, not just because of religion (judaism)
I did it once, when I was 16. And more power to the people who are waiting, its definitely better to wait. Trust me, once youve experienced it for the first time the want and need for it is like 100 times worse. Its hard to control too. So to all those who are waiting: wait as much as you can.
I fully agree...I'm christian as well so basically, I'm confused since I'm in the same predicament as you are.