i'll try to keep this simple - the relationship is all about your partner. if they don't want it yet and you do, then you should wait until both of you are comfortable. as for the whole 'sin' thing, this all would probably lead to the fact that bad experiences have come out of it - through irresponsibility. if you really want to have sex, then, yeah, you need to be resposible, respect your partner's views on it, and so on. - use a condom. there's my advice. edit: - i also just wanna say, i'm not here to tell people what they should and shouldn't do, that decision is for them to make, based upon the facts.