That. I'd still watch porn if I would had a wife or girlfriend. It's not cheating or disrespectful, it's more like keeping you updated It's like, your wife is a vegetarian and you really want a cheeseburger.
I think it's only disrespectful if the husband does it behind his wife's back. As gross as it is for me to admit it, my mom knows my dad looks it up, but she's not bothered by it because she knows he's not going to up and leave her for some 22-year-old twit. I think if the husband acts like he doesn't do it and whatnot, that's disrespectful.
Thank you Will and Penny. This is what I mean. If he's stroking the baloney pony to 22 year old Suzie getting done in every position, but isn't telling his wife that's disrespectful. ...and yes I could've worded that less offensively but oh well.
[youtube]hh81LMz1sPo[/youtube] [youtube]4CITa_pmox4[/youtube] That's where I got it from. "looks like Chuck's gonna put the hot dog...in the bun!"
I do agree, but it also makes me wonder if his wife has given him a good reason to be afraid to tell her.
In a relationship I have one rule, regarding things like that. You may look and fantasize as much as you want. As long as you're not touching that person, the screen and / or yourself, I have no problem with it. Whereas there are exceptions, when it comes to porn and touching oneself...I mean...not seeing each other for 5 weeks...that's hard to do... So yeah. But that's just my opinion. If it's not my relationship, I say: Agree on whatever both partners can get used to without losing their minds.
What about married women and porn? As far as I'm concerned, nothing is "wrong" in any kind of relationship unless the other half has a problem with it.
Exactly...it's not as if women don't watch porn or read erotic novels. They probably do it far far less then guys but to say women don't do it at all would be wrong.
Far far less you say? I honestly don't know alot of women that don't watch porn regularly, but then again, I have a pretty open group of friends. I say mix and match = great sex.
Imagine the arguments that could possibly stem from that though: Wife: "why can't you ever do me like that?!" Husband: "why don't you have tits like those?!" Wife: "why can't you ever make me orgasm?!" Husband: "how come you wont let me do that to you?!" Wife: "Why do you have such a big collection of porn?...am I not satisfactory enough for you?!" Husband: "Why the hell are you watching me jerk off?!"
Honestly what's the problem with that? At the moment I am reading: And it says that you should watch it together, and if there is a clash in the choice of porn between the two, they can just take turns watching whatever the other person prefers. It's really not that complicated. And there is also low budget porn with actors who don't have very flattering bodies.
This thread has been enlightening for me. I thought women were all fembots or something until just now. Spoiler J/K