I need everyone’s help.

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    LProckon

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    like EVERYONE has already said, just go talk to her! talk to her like you would talk to a friend. be casual about it and you can talk about basically anything. like "hey, how you doing?". nice and simple start eh? bring a friend if you'd feel more comfortable. i agree with whoever said that. ask her and her friends to hang out with you and your friends at the park or something.
     
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    i asked this one girl out (one of my best friends) and she started to ignore and avoid me because she was too shy to talk to me, it's after of making our friend relationship that we had before really awkward.

    i used to be shy, i'm more accustomed to talking to girls now. what i used to do was think out what i was going to talk about with her, and some cool pick-up lines too. (for example: "whoa, is it hot here or is just you?" or, for the more racy people: "my shoes are having a party, want my pants to come down?" :p).

    so yeah, try thinking out some things you could talk to her about (happenings in school, things that annoy her, things she's involved in). i find that talking with girls about something they don't like can really bring 2 two people together, ironically. feed and use her emotions to your advantage. :p.
     
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    Will, you and me ARE alike. :lol: It's scary. I'm pretty much in the same position, too.
     
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    hehe.........same here...... :lol:
     
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    ROTFLMFAO.

    Holy ####, that was funnier that Bryan and his no-no spot joke. :lol:
     
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    ok will this is what you you do ive been in your situation before, you can feel the attraction and you want to talk to her, we could only tell you to go up and talk to her, but its you that has to be like ok these guys are right. you have to think of it this way, she tells you to come and talk to her so shes expecting it so it doesnt matter, if this was a random girl that you have never talked to and you wanted to do this then yea im just like you shy as ever, but if shes telling you to come talk to her, it shouldnt matter how shy you are because shes basically saying "i enjoy talking to you and i want you!!!" lol. but thats my whole thing on your situation, but best of luck to you man i know you can do it!
     
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    :lol:
     
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    Dude let me ask u this: You are not planning to kiss her and to make love to her through e-mails, right? So the only way do do this kind of stuff one day is when you stand infront of her, right? So think of this aspect - eitherway you should face her one day, sooner or later! Personally I think that sooner sounds better than later.

    [LP] - "...we're out of time left to watch it all unwind..."

    So i don't think you hav much time to act.... so just GO! ;)
     
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    ROTFLMFAO.

    Holy ####, that was funnier that Bryan and his no-no spot joke. :lol: [/b][/quote]
    Now it's 1:0 for Mark. Bryan has to attack back soon.

    The first step to get close to somebody is talk to them face to face and not via e-mail.
    Kinda "step 1 to be a mod, don't ask for it"
    Meaning, not in the forums, because it can be easily done and effective in MSN.
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    Will

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    Well, unless she calls me over break and we agree to meet somewhere, I'll talk to her at school when break ends, which is next week.
     
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    You should take the first step and call her. And if the conversation goes good on the phone see if she'd like to go to the movies or go to the mall or something of that matter.

    And maybe each of you take a friend along to ease the tension a little.
     
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    You should take the first step and call her. And if the conversation goes good on the phone see if she'd like to go to the movies or go to the mall or something of that matter.

    And maybe each of you take a friend along to ease the tension a little. [/b][/quote]
    I don't have her number nor do I know anyone that does and it's not listed.
     
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    I don't have her number nor do I know anyone that does and it's not listed. [/b][/quote]
    Oh yea, I forgot you said that.

    Well then, hopefully she calls you then.
     
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    wasnt this closed.... :blink:


    oh i guess u dont have her phone #. bummer there :wth:
     
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    You should take the first step and call her. And if the conversation goes good on the phone see if she'd like to go to the movies or go to the mall or something of that matter.

    And maybe each of you take a friend along to ease the tension a little. [/b][/quote]
    Go to the mall?? Are you kidding me, that is the lamest thing ever. Don't take her to the mall, it's what tiny-tots do - use it as a last choice. The movies is an OKAY idea, but think about it, WHEN THE HELL ARE YOU GONNA TALK TO HER IN A MOVIE?! Try eating somewhere, even if it's fast food, who cares if it's cheap, as long as you're both having fun and chit-chatting. Go bowling, that's always fun to do with couples. Even though I hate it, go minature golfing, because at least there's an activity to break the ice and talk about it. You can go from ""hey that was a good try" into "my favorite band's linkin park" into "i love you baby, now let's !@$%." ["I kid, I kid"] Hope I helped SOMEHOW. The longer you wait, the worse it'll get, trust me from experience over here, buddy. :rolleyes:
     
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    Go to the mall?? Are you kidding me, that is the lamest thing ever. Don't take her to the mall, it's what tiny-tots do - use it as a last choice. The movies is an OKAY idea, but think about it, WHEN THE HELL ARE YOU GONNA TALK TO HER IN A MOVIE?! Try eating somewhere, even if it's fast food, who cares if it's cheap, as long as you're both having fun and chit-chatting. Go bowling, that's always fun to do with couples. Even though I hate it, go minature golfing, because at least there's an activity to break the ice and talk about it. You can go from ""hey that was a good try" into "my favorite band's linkin park" into "i love you baby, now let's !@$%." ["I kid, I kid"] Hope I helped SOMEHOW. The longer you wait, the worse it'll get, trust me from experience over here, buddy. :rolleyes: [/b][/quote]
    Competing with the girl and kicking her ass in bowling or golf isn't that great of an idea either.

    I think the mall is fine, its a place you can go, walk around, talk and be around other people so you dont have to feel awkward at all.

    :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
     
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    Go to the mall?? Are you kidding me, that is the lamest thing ever. Don't take her to the mall, it's what tiny-tots do - use it as a last choice. The movies is an OKAY idea, but think about it, WHEN THE HELL ARE YOU GONNA TALK TO HER IN A MOVIE?! Try eating somewhere, even if it's fast food, who cares if it's cheap, as long as you're both having fun and chit-chatting. Go bowling, that's always fun to do with couples. Even though I hate it, go minature golfing, because at least there's an activity to break the ice and talk about it. You can go from ""hey that was a good try" into "my favorite band's linkin park" into "i love you baby, now let's !@$%." ["I kid, I kid"] Hope I helped SOMEHOW. The longer you wait, the worse it'll get, trust me from experience over here, buddy. :rolleyes: [/b][/quote]
    EVERYONE: DO NOT EVER TAKE TIPS FROM THIS GUY.
     
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    Competing with the girl and kicking her ass in bowling or golf isn't that great of an idea either.

    I think the mall is fine, its a place you can go, walk around, talk and be around other people so you dont have to feel awkward at all.

    :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: [/b][/quote]
    That's pretty modest of you to assume Will will beat his date. :p
     
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    That's pretty modest of you to assume Will will beat his date. :p [/b][/quote]
    Yeah, seeing as how I suck at bowling and golf.

    And, I was joking about not taking tips from you. :p
     
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