DJHahn - Well, pretty obvious when she asked me to dance [of course she had to do this through her friends...] she like me. But if she never asked me to dance...I wouldn't know if she liked me or not. I just see her in tech ed and outta classes. Neil - I've been trying. I always run into 2 walls. Either I can't find her or she just ignores me like usual. Or I hit another wall and don't know what to talk about. adelleda - Corner her, right. I'm already regretting I haven't asked her yet. This is driving me insane. edit - post 2222
I know this sounds corny and unreal, but the boyfriends of my friends asked them out by writing their special someone a poem or a rap or something. It doesn't even have to be that great; the point is that it sets the mood, even relaxes things a bit. I think one kid wrote, "I think you're cool, Because you're not a stool."
"Hey there, do I know you from somewhere?" "Did it hurt?" She'll say what? "When you fell from heaven" Got it from the book Pimping for dummies
That's the worst advice ever... [/b][/quote] Well said! Note: If using my advice, make sure the girl isn't a jackass.
FreeYourMind - You should tell that. Then tell me how much it hurt when you got sacked. Mark - I probably will take your advice. Converse with her then slip it in like that. But no, she's not a jackass. Chris -
hey just be fuckin cool and if you really like the girl and she likes you too then i don't think there should be a problem.Unless ofcourse she doesn't like you......
It's been about 2 months already [yeah I know, I should of asked her sooner] and she hasn't asked me yet. So yeahh...I'm going to have to be the one asking. I'm waiting till my friend organizes a tobogganing event or something like that where everyone's going to get together, she'll be there.
The best way to ask her out since she freezes up when you two cross paths, is to try and time it so that you sit next to her at lunch. Talk to her the whole time, not mentioning anything date related, and try to keep the conversation going if she freezes up. If she goes quiet ask her things about her favorite hobbies to keep the conversation running. If she plays sports ask her how good that's going for her, and maybe discuss upcoming events such as Christmas, or a school event you know she'd probably go to. If you keep talking to her, she should start to feel a lot more comfortable around you by the time the lunch period is over. When it's time for her to get up that's when you tell her to wait, and ask her if she can meet you somewhere outside of school at the end of the day (could be at the doors, or anywhere). When she's out there and waiting for you (no matter how nervous she can be) that's when you pop the question. Say hey, and greet her by her name and then look her in the eyes and go "So, the reason I wanted to meet up with you after school is cause I thought I'd ask you a question." She'll be like "Yes?" and then that's when you go "I was wondering if you were free this weekend or something, so we could go see a movie..". If she feels the way her friends tell you she feels she'll tell you if she's free, or give you a time when she can go a movie without any plans earlier on in the day. Ask her if you can have her number to call her on the day she's free, and see if she's still able to go. When the day comes, call her, have a casual conversation with her, once again keeping it alive if she falls shy, and then pick her up to see the movie when it's time to go. Be yourself on the date, and if she goes to hold your hand just let it be natural and don't pull back. The most important thing to a girl is that you be yourself for her, and don't be too shy. If you make an excellent impression on your first date, there should be no reason why she wont agree to more dates in the future. Good luck dude, you already have this in the bag, just be yourself and be confident.
that is a cool advice to you, but i join this: if you make the conversation, dont make it look like you made it just for the sake of asking her a date, if you like her then its cool also for you to find out what she is really like as a person, then just ask her all those question just to open the door for dating. yes, for sure it will follow since you know she likes you, but if guys ask me all these questions and all i see is that they do it cos they want to get into my knickers they have no chance. its perfectly ok to feel that way, but girls like to know that they are respected as a person before they jump into it.
Thanks alot Derek! That really helps. Except in my case I'll be at a huge snow hill with everyone next time I see her and we don't have a lunchroom in our school. Anyways, that really did help Derek. iamrighthereandnow - Thanks for the advice
w...w... what?! [/b][/quote] Nor do we have a cafeteria. Our school sucks, I know. All our school is, is square shaped and in each corner we have these huge 'foyers'. Last year we were allowed to each lunch there [2-3 tables set up for the lunch hour in each foyer]. Pretty lame. I know.