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  1. Mechanical Christ

    Mechanical Christ Ein heißer Schrei LPA Super Member

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    Yeah. I'm the polar opposite of a Christian, but yet I have to go to church. I don't know how to tell my parents that I'm not a Christian. Help?
     
  2. Leones

    Leones Super Member LPA Super Member

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    Yeah. I'm the polar opposite of a Christian, but yet I have to go to church. I don't know how to tell my parents that I'm not a Christian. Help? [/b][/quote]
    You could sit around a table with your parents and say you have something important, then tell them you decided not to go to church anymore because after alot of thinking about yourself and your belief you come to the conclusion you are not a christian.


    Show them it's a big issue and that you spend alot of thinking on it so they won't act like you are making a joke or you are too immature to make such a decision.


    It took me a long time to convince them I wasn't chistian. Tried all kind of ways to tell them, but the best way to tell is just to be clear, confedent about what you say and don't give in.


    I hope everything works out, good luck. :)
     
  3. John.

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    Yeah. I'm the polar opposite of a Christian, but yet I have to go to church. I don't know how to tell my parents that I'm not a Christian. Help? [/b][/quote]
    I don't believe in God as well and my family is Catholic. They go to church every Sunday that they can, but I only have to go to church only on special occasions, like today is my sister's communion, so I'll be at church for a little bit. My mom doesn't totally accept the fact that I don't believe in God though.
     
  4. the_king_of_all

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    ok i hate him. the only time i want to get on the pc to talk to my girlfriend, and he decides he 'has to' use it (to write a letter for some sad act club he is in that he could do any other time of the day, only because he's such a fuckin idiot, he decides he has to use it when i want to get on here...) then what does he do? he tries to lock me out the house. i break the door (i didnt actualy know i was that strong) then just sit around outside, then she comes and talks to me, i tell her i hate him. she claims i dont but.. what? can she see inside my head now? i didnt think so either... he always pays so much attention to my brother, never talks to me and always seems like he doesnt give 2 shits about me, all he ever does to me is get really pissed at me and go mental at me for no reason (e.g 'get off the computer' 'in a sec, just gotta finish up' then he will go absalutaly mental at me and (if she isnt around) start throwing me round the house and throwing me out the house, and if she is around just shout abuse at me and tell me how he doesnt care about my life) then he starts talkin about how he is going to 'cancle access for msn'. he dares and i swear i will go so mental at him.... i'm not even joking... if he does that then i wont be able to talk to my g/f.... ever.... he knows that, that's why he's doing it...
     
  5. Derek

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    Well, Ashley's boyfriend is cheating on her!

    I quote directely from her livejournal:

    "your signifigant other agrees to go out on a date with an old friend. doesnt ask. and just casually says : " oh by the way im going to a party with a girl/boy friend of mine."

    never met her/him

    never mentioned her/him

    am i out of line here guys and gals?"


    Show of hands, how many of you (who knew about me and her) saw this coming? *Raises my hand*.

    I told her and her friend so much (moreso after me and Ashley stopped talking) that this guy was a waste, and that he wasn't worthy of Ashley. Of course I didn't know shit, and John was never going to hurt Ashley. WRONG.

    I find this so hilarious, they apparentely got into a fight once because he "loved her so much and couldnt stand how many guy friends she had" and yet, he's clearly cheating on her.

    I'm not even gonna give John the benefit of the doubt that he isn't doing anything, because I don't like the guy and never have. I've thought he was a loser from the start..but of course Ashley had to fuck me over twice with him and now we don't talk anymore.

    Her loss. :teehee:
     
  6. Kate

    Kate beat me senseless LPA Super Member

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    You seem awfully gleeful about that, man. I'm not sure if that's a good thing.

    Anyway, I'm dating a coworker's twin brother, and it's driving my coworker insane because she doesn't have a boyfriend. Worse, she walked in on us kissing last night. :whistle: That was not pretty.

    I don't get why she's so mad about it. She did encourage me to go out with him in the beginning...
     
  7. Mechanical Christ

    Mechanical Christ Ein heißer Schrei LPA Super Member

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    I think I might be bi. o.0
     
  8. aki*lp

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    :) Leelee is brave *Feel proud for some odd reason*
    :kiss:
    I confess that I am back on lpa*throws confetti* :magic:
     
  9. Messy Marj

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    Halleluah! (w00t)





    :shifty:
     
  10. the_king_of_all

    the_king_of_all LPA Super Member LPA Super Member

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    ok what do you do if your girlfriend openly admits to kissing someone else yet apolgises for it and seems really sorry? i dnt want to accept it because then she might just keep doing it over and over, but i dont want to break up with her cause like... i think i love her.... and she says she loves me but like.... i don't know wether i can believe her anymore... :'(
     
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    I almost passed out at lunch because there was people all around me. I couldn't stand it, so I just left the cafeteria, and walked around outside.

    I feel really alone here now. My best friend is going to be "homebound" soon, and I don't really have any other friends. I feel like a loner. Can't wait until I'm finally out of school for the summer. I need this break. It's been a long year.

    I go to the doctor next Tuesday, to see what's causing me to almost pass out in public places. I already know it's panic attacks/social anxiety, but they're going to give me Anti-Depressants for it. I don't know why. This is the one thing in my life that I don't need to, or want to, question. I just want to be rid of this. I hate it.
     
  12. Leones

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    :hugz:
     
  13. the_king_of_all

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    oh trust me, i know exactly how you feel, it sucks :(
     
  14. Yiwen

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    I'm 13 and never had a girlfriend. I'm scared for needles and bugs. I tend to lie about stuff and I haven't visited the lpa in a while.
     
  15. gokce_lp

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    i love him very much. and i've learnt that he'd like to go out with me if i 'll be happy or look happy.I know, i must be like i am, but i dont know.. so, i always smile. but this is fake. always fake smiles...
     
  16. Messy Marj

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    I'm scared.
     
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    breaking up
     
  18. Danielle

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    I'm so fucking pissed at my best friends at the minute! Up until now I get higher than them in just about every essay,coursework or exam we do. But when either of them get a littel bit higher than me- they seem to take great pleasure in it! Like they are gloating becuase they beat me! I don't ahve a problem with them being happy with what they got but there's no reason to go on about how they've beaten me.
    Then last week we were writing an essay about poetry in english and one of the poems we hads to write about I hadn't been in the lesson for due to illness. So I asked said friend if I could borrow their notes and they wouldn't let me. Asking me if I was just afraid of being beaten! I couldn't care less whether I get higher than them to be quite honest! And my other friend keeps going on about how I don't need to revise much and I can get A's or B's but they have to revise for months to get a C! Its not like thats my fault!!

    [/rant]

    Do you all think I'm over reacting or am I being fair? :(
     
  19. aki*lp

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    Awww this is so difficult but if you like her alot then give her a chance but make sure she understands that you don't like it another wise as you mentioned she will be doing it again and again. And plus she was frank and was truthful so give her that credit, but don't drift off, keep your eyes open :) .

    @Marj-- :hugz: What are you scared of?

    @@Danielle-- No you aren't over reacting, that is no offence to you but they are behaving more like snobs then friends. Tell them that you aren't perfect and that they should be more supportive. And if that doesn't work out then perhaps you can, make new and nice friends, I know it is sometimes hard but try it.
     
  20. Tom

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    stored so much anger inside of a bottle :angry:
     
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