Got Something You Want To Let Out?

damn right...

 

Leonie says I am too sweet for others because guys are still coming up to me, all flirting and stuff. And the stupid thing is, I react back while I have a boyfriend
I think it's way too much fun to let it go.
I know I will never cheat on my boyfriend. I hate people who cheat.
But I still feel guilty.

I am so stupid.

 

You're not stupid Marj. As long as your boyfriend knows that you'll never cheat, he'll understand that it's (that flirty side) a part of you.

 

I am the same Marj. I get told im confusing and flirt too much. But the ones who say that I tell them to fuck off because that is who I am. It is only flirting to the ones who want it to be (because they want you) or feel threatened (because they cant have you and want to put you down and make you feel like shit). So fuck 'em all. That is who we are and they can either live with it or piss off! Our boyfriends know that who we really are and that is the only thing that matters. Peace out Marj!

 

Wow, that made me actually feel better. Thank yous.

 

*raises hand* Yeah, I'm there. I've talked to people twice my age who guessed me for 17 or 18. Not by looks but by conversational skills. It's actually pretty crazy. But whatever.

 

OOOHHH GOD. I was hugging a friend I just met and I wanted to give him a kiss on the cheek but he turned his head and I kissed him on his mouth and he kissed me back and he didn't wanted to let me go and now we kissed and I really have no idea what to tell Maxime. =/

 

I think you'd do well to tell him the truth, that it was an accident (I'm not sure what you should say about the actual kissing back) because if he finds out later, he'll be more hurt to find it out from someone else rather than you.

 

Mm...I don't know. He will never find it out, because me and this friend told each other that that moment didn't exist. We will never kiss again. It was a mistake.
It still feels weird though

 

So, this one girl really likes me. She's a sweet girl, but she has some emotional baggage. She's... very emo. She cuts and whatnot. I like her a little, but...

not as much as I like one of her friend's. I know they both like me (emo girl more than the "band girl"). But I like the band girl more. I want to pursue a relationship with band girl, but how do I do that without hurting emo girl's feelings, and still remain friends with her?

Keep in mind I've liked band girl since around November 2005, and just started hanging out with emo girl like, in December. So.

 

So my dad thinks my cousin might be ripping apart my family.

And as much as I love my cousin that might be true. And it freaks me out.

He's 28 and he's still basically living off of his daddy (my uncle). He lives in my uncle's old house and doesn't pay the mortgage. Only the electrical bill. My uncle has to pay for everything. Frankie doesn't really pay a dime anymore. And I know how passive my uncle is. He'll never ask him for more money...ever. And Frankie had the nerve to go out and buy himself a HUGE flatscreen HDTV. Y'know. He COULD have payed his father... but no.

And my aunt (who jsut recently married into the family last summer) is finally getting sick of it. And I can't say I blame her. They're just barely getting by paying their own mortgage. They don't need to pay for Frankie's too.

And he's being really ungrateful lately too.

I love my cousin but he's being such an ass.

 

So, I TOTALLY just let go last night.

It started with the drinking games. We were playing dice in a bowl, if you rolled less than six, you get half of a shot, if you get doubles, you get a full shot. We went through all the Smirnoff Ice, Vodka, Winecoolers, and Cranberry Juice.

And I also smoked a bit too. And the sad thing is, other than the hour that my stomach was acting up, I was great.

I need to stop doing that.

 

For once, I agree with your dad. oO

Your aunt and uncle should stop paying the mortgage, telling their son:
"hey, congratulations, son. you bought yourself a huge-ass tv, so we'll just assume that you can pay for all of your bills too! we need the money that is going toward your house, and since you've proven you can support yourself financially, we think it's time to go financially solo. good luck."

Sure, it may be a bit harsh to them, but they need the money, and he can obviously support himself. If he can't, well he's lucked out, time to sell that HDTV, eh?

And yeah, it kinda annoys me when shit like this happens.

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Minus - Damn, sounds like a fun game. xD Although, you souldn't do that so often. Once in a while is fine though.

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Marj - Just tell him what happened and it was an accident. It's best not to hide something from him as if he does find out, he might flip. But I don't know what kind of a guy Maxime is, so yeah.

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Casey's situtation is a tad fucked. As the way it's going through my mind is you go with one girl or another, because if you do try and be friends with both [ not as in 2 girlfriend; 1 girlfriend, other just friend ], you're bound to fuck up. I don't know really what to say to you really, so yeah. Good luck with that.

 

I ended up just telling the emo girl I like her friend. Her friend likes me too. Emo girl is quite upset, but she'll get over it.

 

I'm too nice for my own good.

 

I am too! people get obsessed with me and even after over a year of being rejected, then still chase after me!


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GRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!
There is NOTHING I can do to make this guy happy!!!
I know if I say anything he will just be an ass hole or get mad at me and take me off of his buddy list for the 3rd fucking time!

When he is not being all emo he is sweet and fun and really funny. but when he is depressed he is a totally prick and can't take you being funny at all! ARGH!

I hate depressed people. If they won $40mill or had an amazing partner, they still wouldn't be happy!

 

the real depressed people have a chemical imbalance, as in not their fault.

but i would feel better if someone was trying to cheer me up like you did for him.

he just sounds like an asshole. whatever. there are better people out there. he isn't worth it if he's going to be rude to you when you're trying to cheer him up like that. obviously you care, and usually that is exactly what someone needs, to see that someone else cares about them when they need them the most.

 

Yes! Me too! And people I barely even know always feel like they can spill their hearts on me and tell me all their problems! Like I actually know how to fix anything! I mean, nothing makes me happier than making a good friend feel better, but I hate when people just learn my name and automatically assume that I am willing to listen to their issues and everything!