Got Something You Want To Let Out Part 2

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  1. Misfit Jay

    Misfit Jay I'm down with tippin 40s to your memory. LPA Super Member

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    The rules of three. What ever harm you do, will come back at you, three times.

    I hope he gets his share then. He took her heart, her band, and ultimately her life.

    I just hope his third punishment is me tearing him apart.
     
  2. Arlene

    Arlene Oh what tangled webs we weave LPA Super Member

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    @ Holiday: I think it's a terrible generalization and look on things to say that most people are whores. It's a very close minded and ignorant thing to say. Some people are however, and they are just looking for attention, but definetley not the majority of people.

    Joe: Well, I know that you're upset, but hey, kudos to you for trying. As I said, I think you need to just take Derek's advice. Learn to love yourself first, be comfortable with who you are, be confident in yourself, before you ask a girl out. That's what I think you should do anyway. You WILL find the right girl for you, as everyone, including myself, has told you, you just have to be patient. I know that's not what you want to hear, but that's what it's going to take. Time. Hang in there love. :hug:
     
  3. Casual D

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    Holly, you already have my MSN...please write me if you ever need to vent or just scream to someone. I will always be here to be a great friend and give you whatever support you may be needing; because from my experience, some people are just ruthless and disgusting (like the girl you mentioned), and thus will never be aware of how their words truly affect others.

    Same goes with you Joe, some girls (although not all) can be simply just despicable. I have PMed you with my MSN address so that you can vent to me if you ever need someone to talk to; and I hope you take my offer, because I believe you need a friend who can understand you right now because of how you are feeling (which is what we here at LPA are for).

    To the both of you: Life may seem like it is unfair, but everything happens for a reason. Sometimes it is to make us stronger emotionally, and other times it is to give us the knowledge to prevent others from making the same tragic choices that you or others around you may have already made.

    To me Holly, your story is a lesson to others as to how much suicide can affect the ones closest to the person who has taken their own life. It will serve as a harsh reality to those thinking of ending their life, that suicide is NOT the only way out and that there is always another way, no matter how hopeless it may seem in the long run.

    I support you Holly, and your brother seems like he was one incredible person to be around. May he rest in peace.
     
  4. Misfit Jay

    Misfit Jay I'm down with tippin 40s to your memory. LPA Super Member

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    I know no one's going to care. I'm not one of the popular ones here, nor do I really fucking care. But I just wanted to say, I'm done here. It's going to be a long time till I decide to come back. So until then, goodbye LPA. It was good for a while.
     
  5. Casual D

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    And you are done here...why?

    What triggered such a choice?
     
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    Yeah. As far as I know people liked interacting with you. Why the change of heart?
     
  7. Casual D

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    Exactly, I'm a little confused here myself.
     
  8. Holiday

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    Thank you, Derek, what you said made me breakdown in tears.

    I miss my brother so much. Death is so hard to deal with. it's so hard.

    I can't even see what i'm typing. damn tears.


    Arlene: Whoever you are, just take a look outside. I don't know how old you are, but you'll get colder once you start to understand tthe horrors that life holds.

    I'm not saying you haven't been through anything because honestly I don't know.

    I am saying from my point of view, and all of my experiences (I have had more than you can imagine), there is a VERY VERY VERY small amount of really good people out there. and just because you get along with a bunch of people doesn't mean you know the inner workings of their mind.

    I have devoted much of my life to understanding those around me. I have better insight to the inner workings of the world than you can grasp.

    Now I am grieving my brother, and I would appreciate it if you would not try to undermine that by focusing on one irrelevant statement.

    Multiple little high school WHORES killed my little brother. MANY other little whores have destroyed soooo many of my friends' lives. And whether or not it was a general statement is not the point. I think I even mentioned in an earlier post, if not that one, that I was making a general statement.

    Go on and live your life. But be weary. People are not as kind hearted as you have been lead to believe.
     
  9. Casual D

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    Holiday, get on MSN. I'm here for you girl! <3
     
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    Holly...:hug:
     
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    :cry: :hug:
     
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    And baby, like Derek said, I'm always here for you if you feel the need to scream it out. <3
     
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    Me too. :)
     
  14. Holiday

    Holiday Married and on a life-long adventure! LPA Super VIP

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    Thank you guys.

    I really appreciate it. I have a lot of grieving to go through.

    :cry:
     
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    Just stay strong Holly. You can do this. We all have faith in you!
     
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    Who is this about? I don't care if I'm double posting..I'm concerned.
     
  17. Arlene

    Arlene Oh what tangled webs we weave LPA Super Member

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    Oh, Holiday, I certainly didn't mean to undermine you or anything. I feel terribly for you, I can't even really put it into any words because it's an upsetting thing for me to think about. I can't even imagine the pain that you're going through. It seems that you and your family are doing the best you can, and you're holding as strong as you can, and that's amazing to see. I really wish you guys all the best.

    And I understand how what happened with your brother, and how it involved teenage girls can change your view on them, but there are more than a few great people out there. (I also kinda called you out on the generalization because you were replying to Joe's post, and I feel that telling him that all girls are whores is just going to kinda set him back a little, and make him not want to make a step, ya know?) But sure a lot of teenage girls are ridiculously stupid, and maybe there are only a few teenage girls that aren't, but once you get past a certain age, people aren't as bad as you're seeing them. I do understand however, that everything kinda has no light to it for you right now, and I feel very strongly for you, but hopefully someday you'll be able to see that people aren't as bad as you think. And I'm not going to start viewing people more skeptically, because I've done that, and it makes you feel like noone can be trusted, and you start to never give anyone a chance in life. But I do understand where you're coming from, and I hope you can view things differently at some point in your life. I truly wish you and your family all the best. <3
     
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    I've never met someone who I got along so well with...... but I've also never met someone who could make me so angry sometimes.
     
  19. Misfit Jay

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    Hey Holly. I'm not good with these types of things, but I 'll give it my best shot. I've never talked to you, and I've been reading what happened and I'm so sorry hun.

    I lost a best friend, who was a younger sister to me, about two years ago. And I still can't believe she's gone. I still wait for her phone calls and everything. I still wait for her to come online, some nights. It's very hard, I will agree. But remember, your brother would want you to stay strong. You need to for your family and friends. :hug:

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    On a different note, I can't believe that he was found innocent. How? Why? Because he was high and intoxicated? HE FUCKING KILLED HER! I hate drugs, I hate this judicial system, and I fucking hate him.
     
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    I hate stupid people.
     
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