Well with the help that AIDS victims get from medicine, it reduces the chance of the baby contracting it. I suppose it's probably mostly because the virus doesn't travel through the placenta that well (but thats just my guess). Also, I understand that the man doesn't have to carry the baby for 9 months, however I believe if he wants it the woman should do that much for him. I mean it's half his, just cause he doesn't have to carry it doesn't make him an obsolete part of the equation. IMO. And it's only 9 months, and lemme tell you, they fly by. At least they have for me. *shrugs* And that topic also contradicts the 'if the baby is unwanted than better dead than in misery' stance, because just because the woman doesn't want it doesn't mean the man won't give it a wonderful life.