What you look for in a relationship...

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    Will

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    I can't really answer this, but most of you have or have had relationships, so you can.

    What do you look for in a relationship?

    I'm bored, humor me.
     
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    Kæton

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    Well if my feelings are just humor to you, forget it! :lol:, Just kidding.

    I just like to be with someone who... I like the company of and like in general. Looks really don't matter to me (although it helps and I know that sounds shallow). Before a relationship, I probably won't really talk to girls unless they're my friends. That's how my relationships start out (as friends). I find that better than just getting into a relationship with someone you don't know.

    ...I don't know if that all makes sense, but yeah. lol
     
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    That was horrible, Keaton.

    You make me want to die alone.






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    For the girl to actually like me. :lol:
     
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    Kæton

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    That was horrible, Keaton.

    You make me want to die alone.






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    edit: yeah, it usually helps to have the girl like you as well... They might be the kind that get seven different boyfriends in the same year :whistle:... :lol:... Playaz' unite :lol: :huh:
     
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    I am in a relationship right now with a guy. We started out as friends, then we started dating. What I look for in a relationship is trust and friendship, which my boyfriend and I both have. :)
     
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    im in a relationship right now too...

    but i wonder if he really likes me cause sometimes i think he can be using me just as his lil toy cause i give into people really easily i mean i would never do anything with him but he has hurt me so many timez b4 emtionally *sigh* :wth:
     
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    I like somebody with a good sense of humour. I absolutely LOVE to laugh.
     
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    I am not looking for a relationship, but if I am, I would like someone I can talk to about anything and doesn't tell corny jokes.
     
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    At the moment, I'm in a relationship of 21 months.

    How we've managed to survive you ask? COMMUNICATION. That's the first thing I look for in the person of the opposite gender - they have to be able to be to talk to me and not keep stuff from me - if they have a problem, they need to voice it so we can work it out, you know what I mean?

    Next thing would be their humor! They have to be able to understand my crude humor and they have to be just as funny.

    Then, they have to be a music fanatic, listening to music whenever possible.

    They have to be a good dancer.

    They have to be a non-airhead, not necessaily a braniac, but knowledgeable enough to have common sense about topics.

    Above all, they gotta look good - having nice legs and feet. :D
     
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    What Elie looks for:

    - Always there for me.
    - I can go to at any time of the day.
    - Will always be with me/near me.
    - Will always have a glow on their face.
    - Will always greet me.
    - I can always chat with.
    - Can be slow, as long as I get where I need to be at the end.
    - Will always get my mail early in the morning
    - Will always make me tired ;)
    - Will always make me back hurt ;)


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    Wait, what?!?!? *reads Elie's post more carefully* Ohhh, I thought it meant the person Will when you posted that.... :lol: , how stupid of me to think that!

    Well, I am not currently looking for a relationship, but I guess I would look for these qualities/whatever:

    - make me laugh
    - knows when to back away when I need some space
    - knows when to care for me when I am depressed
    - doesn't ditch/ignore me when his friends are around
    - tells the truth when I ask him something, not just flat-out lie
    - doesn't say "Uh.....me no know." everytime I ask a question
    - loves music just like me
    - has his own opinion
    - respects me
    - understands me
    - isn't a sports freak
    - doesn't treat me like a freak
    - doesn't act like an idiot
    - makes time for me (but I don't want him to be devoted to me)
    - doesn't disrespect others
    - knows his way around a computer
    - likes the outdoors
    - isn't a competitive freak
    - is nice to my friends
    - doesn't insult me and say "No offense..."

    There is some more, but I forgot some of them due to the fact that I am kind of tired and I have to go to this crappy party at my mom's friend's house. I'll add some more later. And yes, that is what I expect in a guy, there will probably never be one like this but I can always hope...


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    Wait, what?!?!? *reads Elie's post more carefully* Ohhh, I thought it meant the person Will when you posted that.... :lol: , how stupid of me to think that!

    Well, I am not currently looking for a relationship, but I guess I would look for these qualities/whatever:

    - make me laugh
    - knows when to back away when I need some space
    - knows when to care for me when I am depressed
    - doesn't ditch/ignore me when his friends are around
    - tells the truth when I ask him something, not just flat-out lie
    - doesn't say "Uh.....me no know." everytime I ask a question
    - loves music just like me
    - has his own opinion
    - respects me
    - understands me
    - isn't a sports freak
    - doesn't treat me like a freak
    - doesn't act like an idiot
    - makes time for me (but I don't want him to be devoted to me)
    - doesn't disrespect others
    - knows his way around a computer
    - likes the outdoors
    - isn't a competitive freak
    - is nice to my friends
    - doesn't insult me and say "No offense..."

    There is some more, but I forgot some of them due to the fact that I am kind of tired and I have to go to this crappy party at my mom's friend's house. I'll add some more later. And yes, that is what I expect in a guy, there will probably never be one like this but I can always hope...


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    I'll go out with you.

    *Holds up 4 fingers on his right hand, and points with his left*

    I match that many qualities!
     
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    What I look for in a relationship

    -Humor
    -Keeping insults of me to a low volume..
    -A strong guy
    -Smart
    -Witty
    -Not smarter than me
    -Knows when I'm down
    -Comfort me
    -Knows about my fear of bugs..
    -A guy taller than me.. (Sigh, not hard to find there..)
    -A guy willing to have a relationship..

    There's more.. I think but I can't think of any more..
     
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    I'm so perfect, I should be with you too! lol. jk. I'm waayy to smart, so I miss your criteria. Sorry :rolleyes:
     
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    i look for a great personality, they have to be somewhat like me, cuz if there not it just wont work, i cant go out with some big pimpette that listens to 50 Cent and beats up linkin park fans with a baseball bat, they gotta be easy going, likes to have fun and go crazy, and











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    LMAO :lol:
     
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    well i've never been in a relationship yet 'cuz all the boys that go to my school are jerks and it's really hard to meet other guys...but i know what i look for. i like a guy with a big sense of humor. one who knows how to put a smile on my face. he should also be rather intelligent and be able to hold a good conversation. he should appreciate me for who i am and not what i look like. there you have it.... :D
     
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    Just a perfect girl.
     
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    what i look for in a guy

    .nice personality
    .can make me laugh
    .not disrespectful
    .smart
    .kindda shy..jus a lil bit
    .some one who i can talk to about anything
    .some one who always have my back
    .comfort me when im down
    .some one who loves me for me
    .NOT A PLAYER
    .some one who knows how to hold up a conversation
    .easy goin and fun
    .a guy who is not afaird of gettin serious with some one.

    physical wise..jus taller than me and broad shoulders..but i really dont care too much about that.
     

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