I can't really answer this, but most of you have or have had relationships, so you can. What do you look for in a relationship? I'm bored, humor me.
Well if my feelings are just humor to you, forget it! , Just kidding. I just like to be with someone who... I like the company of and like in general. Looks really don't matter to me (although it helps and I know that sounds shallow). Before a relationship, I probably won't really talk to girls unless they're my friends. That's how my relationships start out (as friends). I find that better than just getting into a relationship with someone you don't know. ...I don't know if that all makes sense, but yeah. lol
That was horrible, Keaton. You make me want to die alone. [/b][/quote] ... ... ... ... ::' ... ... ... ... ?! ... ... :chemist: edit: yeah, it usually helps to have the girl like you as well... They might be the kind that get seven different boyfriends in the same year :whistle:... ... Playaz' unite
I am in a relationship right now with a guy. We started out as friends, then we started dating. What I look for in a relationship is trust and friendship, which my boyfriend and I both have.
im in a relationship right now too... but i wonder if he really likes me cause sometimes i think he can be using me just as his lil toy cause i give into people really easily i mean i would never do anything with him but he has hurt me so many timez b4 emtionally *sigh* :wth:
I am not looking for a relationship, but if I am, I would like someone I can talk to about anything and doesn't tell corny jokes.
At the moment, I'm in a relationship of 21 months. How we've managed to survive you ask? COMMUNICATION. That's the first thing I look for in the person of the opposite gender - they have to be able to be to talk to me and not keep stuff from me - if they have a problem, they need to voice it so we can work it out, you know what I mean? Next thing would be their humor! They have to be able to understand my crude humor and they have to be just as funny. Then, they have to be a music fanatic, listening to music whenever possible. They have to be a good dancer. They have to be a non-airhead, not necessaily a braniac, but knowledgeable enough to have common sense about topics. Above all, they gotta look good - having nice legs and feet.
What Elie looks for: - Always there for me. - I can go to at any time of the day. - Will always be with me/near me. - Will always have a glow on their face. - Will always greet me. - I can always chat with. - Can be slow, as long as I get where I need to be at the end. - Will always get my mail early in the morning - Will always make me tired - Will always make me back hurt ** I should just marry my computer!
Wait, what?!?!? *reads Elie's post more carefully* Ohhh, I thought it meant the person Will when you posted that.... , how stupid of me to think that! Well, I am not currently looking for a relationship, but I guess I would look for these qualities/whatever: - make me laugh - knows when to back away when I need some space - knows when to care for me when I am depressed - doesn't ditch/ignore me when his friends are around - tells the truth when I ask him something, not just flat-out lie - doesn't say "Uh.....me no know." everytime I ask a question - loves music just like me - has his own opinion - respects me - understands me - isn't a sports freak - doesn't treat me like a freak - doesn't act like an idiot - makes time for me (but I don't want him to be devoted to me) - doesn't disrespect others - knows his way around a computer - likes the outdoors - isn't a competitive freak - is nice to my friends - doesn't insult me and say "No offense..." There is some more, but I forgot some of them due to the fact that I am kind of tired and I have to go to this crappy party at my mom's friend's house. I'll add some more later. And yes, that is what I expect in a guy, there will probably never be one like this but I can always hope...
Wait, what?!?!? *reads Elie's post more carefully* Ohhh, I thought it meant the person Will when you posted that.... , how stupid of me to think that! Well, I am not currently looking for a relationship, but I guess I would look for these qualities/whatever: - make me laugh - knows when to back away when I need some space - knows when to care for me when I am depressed - doesn't ditch/ignore me when his friends are around - tells the truth when I ask him something, not just flat-out lie - doesn't say "Uh.....me no know." everytime I ask a question - loves music just like me - has his own opinion - respects me - understands me - isn't a sports freak - doesn't treat me like a freak - doesn't act like an idiot - makes time for me (but I don't want him to be devoted to me) - doesn't disrespect others - knows his way around a computer - likes the outdoors - isn't a competitive freak - is nice to my friends - doesn't insult me and say "No offense..." There is some more, but I forgot some of them due to the fact that I am kind of tired and I have to go to this crappy party at my mom's friend's house. I'll add some more later. And yes, that is what I expect in a guy, there will probably never be one like this but I can always hope... [/b][/quote] I'll go out with you. *Holds up 4 fingers on his right hand, and points with his left* I match that many qualities!
What I look for in a relationship -Humor -Keeping insults of me to a low volume.. -A strong guy -Smart -Witty -Not smarter than me -Knows when I'm down -Comfort me -Knows about my fear of bugs.. -A guy taller than me.. (Sigh, not hard to find there..) -A guy willing to have a relationship.. There's more.. I think but I can't think of any more..
I'm so perfect, I should be with you too! lol. jk. I'm waayy to smart, so I miss your criteria. Sorry
i look for a great personality, they have to be somewhat like me, cuz if there not it just wont work, i cant go out with some big pimpette that listens to 50 Cent and beats up linkin park fans with a baseball bat, they gotta be easy going, likes to have fun and go crazy, and HAVE BIG BOOBIES! [email protected] for applications
well i've never been in a relationship yet 'cuz all the boys that go to my school are jerks and it's really hard to meet other guys...but i know what i look for. i like a guy with a big sense of humor. one who knows how to put a smile on my face. he should also be rather intelligent and be able to hold a good conversation. he should appreciate me for who i am and not what i look like. there you have it....
what i look for in a guy .nice personality .can make me laugh .not disrespectful .smart .kindda shy..jus a lil bit .some one who i can talk to about anything .some one who always have my back .comfort me when im down .some one who loves me for me .NOT A PLAYER .some one who knows how to hold up a conversation .easy goin and fun .a guy who is not afaird of gettin serious with some one. physical wise..jus taller than me and broad shoulders..but i really dont care too much about that.