I was just talking with a friend the other day, and we got into this discussion about what kinds of things we find attractive. Apparently, all he finds attractive is chicks with huge boobs, blond hair and blue eyes. I don't really know what I find attractive, because I could be attracted to someone at one point, and then later on, I might be attracted to their complete opposite. One thing is a constant though. For some reason, I always find tall girls attractive. Well, taller girls. There are some exceptions though. Anyway, what attracts you to a person? Just curious.
To me it's mostly about personality, I mean looks are a part of it but not the biggest. They have to know what they want and be intelligent and not a complete dummy, i mean you don't have to be a genius for me to like you but it sure is a great help. so lets just say people that are really dumb are a put down for me. lol
Personality: Openminded, honesty, trustworthy, loving and funny. Those are the main ones. Looks: Taller than me, curls, beautiful eyes and a nice tight butt works as well lol.
I can pinpoint a few things that I find attractive, personality wise and physically, but again, I'm attracted to one thing one day, and another thing the next. I guess I'm just really indecisive.
Absolute main points: personality, eyes, smile, intelligence, and a killer fashion sense. At least, that's all I can think of without making this the gutter of SH.net.
I guess the only constant thing that attracts me to a girl is her personality. If she's outgoing, mildly rambunctious, that's the kind of girl that I somehow always end up attracted to. Except for the occasional shy quiet girl. So there you go again, it always changes. I'm attracted a lot to girls with dark hair and dark eyes though. And here comes the rambling, due to sugar. So I'm stopping.
Personality-wise, I guess just the general intelligent, nice, honest, funny, loving and the like. The usual, I suppose. Obviously I don't look for someone who's a total bitch in the personality department. Looks-wise, I'm a major sucker for eyes (glasses can be nice too), generally a pretty face, and I rather like 'scene' girls, though not to a stupid extent. No particular hair colour or anything, but shorter hair is nice. A good sense of fashion is also a bonus. Weight-wise, I don't really mind, so long as they're not at the extremes of either end of the scale.
Personality: Smart, honest, sweet, funny (definitely a plus for me), caring, like Daniel said...not a total bitch. Looks: Not like the hottest girl on the market, because who am I kidding? But seriously, she at least needs to be cute enough. Eyes kill me as well and I definitely dig a girl with glasses. Her fashion sense can be a little fashionable if she wants, but no "goth/emo/scene" to the max. She likes wearing black and some black eyeliner, that's ok by me, but don't go the extreme. Same goes for weight, if she's a little skinny or fat, fine by me...but I don't want her to tip the scale or not even qualify for the scale.
I'll be honest, and say that I don't really care if she's intelligent or has a good sense of humor and shit. That's all a bonus, yeah. But what matters the most to me is looks. Call me vain and what have you, but i'm just a realist. Looks are literally the first thing you see (obviously). You give a girl (or a guy, whatever) the once over, and from there, the other stuff comes into play. I've dated/slept with all types of girls. Obnoxious, preppy girls. The emo "let me take all your medication that's non-lethal to get your attention" girls (no, really, that happen). The country, tomboy girl that likes to ride 4 wheelers and go mudding. The bookwoorm. Women are my type, and looks attract me, first and foremost.
Agreed. When it comes to looks, big boobs and curvy, slender figure is my thing. I also dig chicks who wear glasses. That's perhaps because I wear them too. EDIT: I dig Keeley Hazell type chicks.
She's gotta have a sense of humor and a nice smile. The smile is usually the first thing I notice on a girl. Nice legs are a definite turn on for me. I'm not really into big boobs. However, she has to have decent sized boobs, not near-flat. Also, I absolutely refuse to date someone who is, for lack of a better word, dumb. EDIT: Also, I refuse to date anyone who smokes. I don't care how you act, I am not going to kiss anybody who smokes. It's disgusting.
Well looks come first, because when I see someone for the first time I have no clue what's she or he like. Only if I like physical appearance I go further to see the personality. With that said, what attracts me the most are girls who are not fat but not to skinny either, with long black hair and a nice ass
Of course, personality is very important. Trustworthy, honest, adventurous, funny, and intelligent. Flat out, I can't STAND stupidity. If you're an idiot, just...go away. Sounds harsh, but hey. For looks, I've realized I have a type. Around 5'10", blue eyes, blonde/brownish hair, lean, and with a slight nerdy look about them. Haha, ah well. As much as I think Josh is absolutely stunning, he IS a bit of a nerd, and I love that about him. Edit: Also, no drugs. Drinking is okay, but I'm against anything else. Just the way I am.
Also, non smoker and non druggy. I also hate obesity, a little belly is alright, just...I don't want to count rolls of fat, you know? I also don't like really tall men/women, makes me feel like a dwarf. And at least an IQ of 120. Also important, must know their way around in bed. This is a little less important, but I love it when he/she speaks more than 1 language.
Fixed. As for me... obviously looks are important, since that's the first thing that attracts you, but I don't really have a type. I just like girls that I find cute. Personality wise, I'm in the same boat as most of the other guys on here. Smart. funny, and I prefer someone a little laid back, too. I don't like drama queens.