Oke, I got you're attention.. I just read the whole masturbation thread and I thought of making this thread... Well, I'm a christian and I will not have sex before I get married (unless I get raped), because I believe in God (and I know He doesn't want everybody to have sex with everybody) and because I want sex to be something special, and to give ALL of me to only one person! What do you guys think about this?
I respect your decision. It's nice to know that there are people out there who believe in that. I think it's a great thing. As for me, well, I've done it. :chemist:
I believe the same. Kinda makes me feel wierd though when most of my friends have already done it....
Seeing as how I’m straight-edge, I’m not going to be having sex until I’m married. The only scenario where that would change is if I know the girl I’m with wants to be with me for the rest of time and we plan on getting married in the future or something like that. For example, I’m 16 right now. If I was to have a girlfriend and she really loved me and I really loved her and we decided to have sex and we knew we were going to be together, then I would do it (protected, of course).
I'm gonna have to agree with you, but I did it when I was 13 yrs old. It was more like a one night stand. and the only person I told was my dad and a few of my friends.
I have no belief in God, but I still support your reason. I plan to wait and make it something special. dlpalex: That's pretty damned young. Where's Cal on this one and his fetish for feet.
I don't believe in marriage. Therefore, I will never get married. But, I agree with you on making it something special. I will not have sex with someone unless I've known them for a long time and been together with them for a long time.
I believe in God too. I personally feel that sex should be something special, and not some 1 night stand. I'm going to wait until I'm with that special person. Like Will said, it might happen before marrage If I know were going to be together for a long time. Me being a guy, its gonna be difficult especially since most of my friends have done it. I dont see what the big deal is anyway.. Sex is not that big. Its not like we have to go on a quest for sex like on those goofy comedy's you see on T.V. It probably wont last that long, depending on the person. So yea, I'm gonna focus on something bigger than sex, like my future. I can wait for sex.
I don't believe in God but i do respect that belief. I do want my 'first time' to be specail but i'm just gonna let things happen. If it happens before marriage then so be it
I'm waiting until I get married or until I find a girl that loves me more than life itself, to have sex. I'm not doing this because of my belief in a god but rather because it is respectable to myself to wait until the right time, rather then give up my virginity at a young age. Trust me, every girl I know that's had sex at a young age has regretted it later on in life. Yeah I'm not a girl, but since I'm so sensitive it would probably bother me just the same. I know a girl named Brianna right now and I came to a conclusion that I really DO love her last night, but I would not have sex with her unless we got married or she told me she loves me more than anything and wants to stay with me forever.
haha ok people, sex is WAY over-rated, really badly, its only good when its with the person you want it to be with, so dont get drawn into peer-pressure people
I think sex is very important. And it is necessary to have it before marriage. What if you fall in love with a girl who's done it before? You marry her and then comes the big moment :chemist: you try to hide under the bed but she has her whip and handcuffs ready lol ok ok not that dramatic but yeah it's nessesary, what if you and your partner get alone and enjoy everything else but sex together :wth: Bleh... I'm in favor of having sex enjoy it and let your partner enjoy it too
I've had sex but it was with someone that I'm madly in love with and someone that is madly in love with me and we know that we want to spend the rest of our lives together. Yeah we're young (only 15) but we're old enough to make our own decisions on this. I would never have done it if I wasn't madly in love with my boyfriend. Since when I was a virgin with who I lost it to was a BIG thing. But I do respect people's decisions in when they are going to have it. They should just do it whenever they feel ready and when they find the right person.
I'm gonna have to agree with you, but I did it when I was 13 yrs old. It was more like a one night stand. and the only person I told was my dad and a few of my friends. [/b][/quote] ...and a message board full of strangers