Many people say you shouldn't have sex before you get married cuz it's a sin, and bla bla bla. So, I was just wondering, what do you guys think about it?
If the couple feel right about it, and they are aware of future changes that might happen due to it, I guess it's fine.
It IS a sin. Says it right there in the Bible. But the way things are with the world, it doesn't matter to most/all people. Most people either aren't Christian, or don't give a shit. But it is a sin if you happen to believe in following the teachings of Christ. I probably stand alone as someone who's waiting.
you dont stand alone, but you are in the vast minority. and besides, your young, when you get into a relationship or something you may change your mind.
Actually I'm almost 20 and have been in several long relationships. I'm strong willed, and nothing could change my mind. I even lost the girl of my dreams over the fact that I'm not fooling around until marriage. So, nothing could ever change my decisions.
well that is something to be proud of. but why did you leave the girl of ur dreams? couldnt you guys get married? oh sry, i dont mean to pry. but good job.
Well, she wanted something I didn't want. And I want to be engaged for at least 6 months before marraige. So it's a sad story kinda.... she's off doing her thing with every guy I know and I'm stuck with a story I can be 'proud' of. LOL
Its not a sin, but I think that they should atleast have some respect for their own body..as to be smart to wait until later in their life to make the choice whether or not to have sex. If anything, I'd wait until I"m 18 at the earliest, because then I'm considered an adult.
Why are you saying it's not a sin? What do you mean, that it's not a sin in your mind? Because that's fine. But if you're saying it's not a sin in terms of Christianity, then you're wrong. EDIT: Forgive me if I sound like I have some "Greater then thou" complex or anything. I'm just as big of a sinner as anyone.
If you wanne do it and you feel good by it , then you have to go for it , don't decide an age for yourself it just doesn't work , it just have to come byself
I, myself, do not consider pre-martial sex sinful before marriage due to my decaying faith for a higher power (or lack thereof entirely). The point being, I lost my virginity because it was right for me, in the right relationship. Confidence, kids. I waited 8 months, which clarified any doubts of Neil just hangin' around for a piece of ass. Sex is a biiig deal, whether you doubt it or embrace it. That particular 3-letter word can make you, or break you. So whatever you choose, be safe and be sure. Because once the heat of the moment's gone, its gone... for good. Ka-peesch?
Sex before marriage is fine in my eyes. If people want to wait then fine. I just don't understand how people can have the determination to not have sex for that long because some people don't get married until alot later than most.
LMAO @ the fucktards that are saying that its not a sin . Just because you don't want it to be a sin doesn't mean its not.
That's pretty much what I was trying to say, but in a nice way. So now that we're being rude, I'll elaborate. If you're talking sin in terms of Christianity(and not just what's right or wrong in your own mind), then it IS a sin, I don't give a fuck what you say. It's not just 'not a sin' because you want it to be. Just like Omar A said.