And we keep talking about the guys: what about the girls? I've had sex with 4 of my past girlfriends. 3 of them liked being spanked, didn't mind anal, and wanted to be called whores and talked dirty to. One of them did not like any of that. Can you guess which 3 of the 4 watched a lot of porn, and which 1 did not?
They were probably just doing it for your benefit haha. All girls think guys like that shit. I've never found a girl who likes any of that.
Yes, I think it's wrong, yes I've watched it. I never watched it when I was with my girl, though I had watched it, but we got caught up and started making videos for each other. Our parents found out, no long term consequences or anything, was just a bad deal. I know a lot of kids who send naked pics of themselves to each other, and I know it seems like harmless high school fun to some people, but some dudes just show everyone that crap, and it only ends up a bad deal for the chicks :/ I know this is more social, but it all starts with porn, and its availability on the internet. I think adults should be allowed to do as the please within the law, but it is wayyy TOO easy for kids to get their hands on.
The single aspect that bugs me about the majority of the posts on this thread is that no one is taking into acount, WHY porn actually could be harmful to people? I saw someone touch on the topic of desensitization, and the fact that young inexperienced kids may not know what they are looking at. I want people to try account for the fact that the majority of mainstream porn that is coming out these days, definately do depict woman as sexual objects, mostly to a point of degradation. Getting fisted, slapped. Made to do humiliating acts that all depict the "dominance" of a man over a woman. Yes, the actual stars, for the most part, are consenting, and this is their choice to do such a thing, but that doesnt mean in any right, that it has any positive influence over a young mind. I feel if someone is sexually mature, understands right from wrong and has a fair judgement of reality based over fantasy, then yes, I'm sure porn can be viewed, aswell, in an objective sense. I just dont feel that Porn can actually have a positive influence over a young mind. I mean what happened to actually wanting to treat a woman with love and respect? To actually see them as beautiful people rather than a lustlul object that you just want to stick your knob in. I dont know, as with anything these days, music, movies, EVERYTHINGS been done, so in order to stay relevant or "fresh", industries are trying to milk things dry and really mix and match things to try push the boundaries even more, same with porn, there are some really hardcore explicit shit coming out to a point that if some kid had to see it as their first experience of sexuallity, my word, wouldnt his entire world be mezmerized? Prostitution, as with porn, I guess, is a choice and something that exists. I feel porn is prostitution with the camera on. Those porn agents are like Pimps in their own right. Go youtube Sasha Grey Tyra Banks show for a pretty good idea of what I'm getting at.
Younger kids watch porn not because they don't respect or love women, but because they are horny and just want to beat off to something that appeals to them and can't get action from other 14 year old girls at the time. Same goes with any guy, really. They are just horny and can't find a better outlet than porn at that given time. Also, love and respect for a woman isn't really instinctive. Especially when you're in puberty like that and raging with emotions and boners, all you want to do is do something sexual with anything, whether that be your hand, a stuffed animal, a couch, or willing girls. It also depends on what kind of person you are. If you're incredibly dumb, you're going to do dumb things in life that other people wouldn't, like copying moves from a hardcore shit porn. What, girls don't like to be shit on? Obviously, but that person is just dumb. That doesn't mean other, more intelligent people will shit on people in bed if they get off to that kind of porn. Also, if you're just a really aggressive person in general, you'll probably end up being overly dominant towards a woman regardless of if you watch that kind of porn. Some guys just need to feel like they inflict pain on women with their penis to make themselves feel good about themselves.