Got Something You Want To Let Out?

Theres this girl who likes me. Shes a really good friend, but I just don't like her in that way. I don't want to ruin anything. what should I do?

Edit: sorry for the double post, something fucked up

 

desperate to have a girlfriend? Is that a confession?

 

Your desperate to get in one im desperate to get out of one. :whistle:

 

I miss Lisa so goddamm much.

 

I started talking to a guy in my class recently, he's been going through a hard time after breaking up with his gf, and then he told me he's got this thing where he's mentally unstable when not in a relationship. he was in a mental institution for a while because of it. he seems like a really nice guy, but he keeps hinting at possibly hooking up with me and I'm thinking he's desperate because he's afraid of being unstable again and repeating what happened before... I feel drawn to actually getting together with him but I'm scared that I won't be able to get out, or if I say no he'll flip. i wouldnt want anything to happen to him.

 

Nothing, really, he just acts like their still together, hugging her, holding her hand, and whatnot. It just kills me to see it. [/b][/quote]
Ah, got it. I was in the same situation last year. I really liked this guy and we had been friends since 4th grade. His ex-girlfriend hung around him a lot like they were stuck together with invisible super-glue. And it just pissed me the hell off. She literally CLUNG TO HIM. I would go home cursing her and then feeling really bad about it, like I was betraying him in some way. One day, for some reason unknown to me, I decided basically "screw it". And let him hang out with whoever he wanted to. Well... apparently that was a mistake. He took my avoidance of him while she was around as a sign of uninterest instead of jelousy. He basically thought that I believed that i was too good for him. And for a while that was true. However one day I approached him about it and sat him down. I said:
"Look, this may sound selfish, even downright disgusting but it needs to be said. I like you a lot, ad seeing you with her so much is really bothering me. You're making me feel as though I'm not wanted, and maybe that's true but culd you say it to my face..?"
Well, he was pretty thunder-struck. He basically told me that I was over reacting and that they were just close friends. He then went on to explain that he loved me like a sister and that it would be awkward if we were anything else. So yeah, I was hurt, but I moved on. Now I don't get so attatched to guys anymore. The was I see it, someone's BOUND to come along sometime. I'm only 13, why bother "falling in love", if you could call it that, now when it will most likely never last? Middle-school relationships are fun and they allow you to socialize but other than that, they aren't that great. That's why I'm waiting until high school until I start taking all this love stuff seriously. For now, I just want to be a kid, I don't want to be weighed down by this so called "commitment". No one gets married in junior high.

[/my two cents]

 

ok i think my girlfriend is mad at me and i dont know why... she wont even speak to me properly, and if i ask her anything she just gives a really short, snappy answer, some-times sarcastic, and whenever i ask her what i have done she either changes the subject at me or just says she has to go and leaves really quickly... oh and another thingy, i was kinda bein really evil to my mates today and like... i dont know why, they were being really snappy and sarcastic and stuff so i just thought stuff it and was really evil to them.... i wish i hadnt been now...

 

I feel alone. :wth:

 

I know what you are going through but sadly I can't give you any really encouraging advice. Usual when your gf acts like that there is something bothering her and upsetting her and usually it has something to do with something you did or her that could hurt the relationship. Let's hope that's not it and she just has alot of other things she is dealing with and hopefully she opens up to you.

 

yeh, thanks mate

 

I hate, i mean i bloody hate the english weather! hmm i guess thats a confession.

 

Your desperate to get in one im desperate to get out of one. :whistle: [/b][/quote]
lol...

 

You.....you forgot that you have...meeee :'(

 

Ah, got it. I was in the same situation last year. I really liked this guy and we had been friends since 4th grade. His ex-girlfriend hung around him a lot like they were stuck together with invisible super-glue. And it just pissed me the hell off. She literally CLUNG TO HIM. I would go home cursing her and then feeling really bad about it, like I was betraying him in some way. One day, for some reason unknown to me, I decided basically "screw it". And let him hang out with whoever he wanted to. Well... apparently that was a mistake. He took my avoidance of him while she was around as a sign of uninterest instead of jelousy. He basically thought that I believed that i was too good for him. And for a while that was true. However one day I approached him about it and sat him down. I said:
"Look, this may sound selfish, even downright disgusting but it needs to be said. I like you a lot, ad seeing you with her so much is really bothering me. You're making me feel as though I'm not wanted, and maybe that's true but culd you say it to my face..?"
Well, he was pretty thunder-struck. He basically told me that I was over reacting and that they were just close friends. He then went on to explain that he loved me like a sister and that it would be awkward if we were anything else. So yeah, I was hurt, but I moved on. Now I don't get so attatched to guys anymore. The was I see it, someone's BOUND to come along sometime. I'm only 13, why bother "falling in love", if you could call it that, now when it will most likely never last? Middle-school relationships are fun and they allow you to socialize but other than that, they aren't that great. That's why I'm waiting until high school until I start taking all this love stuff seriously. For now, I just want to be a kid, I don't want to be weighed down by this so called "commitment". No one gets married in junior high.

[/my two cents] [/b][/quote]
Meh. I guess you're right. I mean the longest relationship I've seen this year lasted two months. Oh, well. Thanks for that.

 

No Problem. :hugz:

 

I LET THE DOGS OUT!!!!

 

UR SO HILARIOUS!1!!! OMFG!1!!

 

:wth:

 

Sylvia is just pissing the fuck out of me.

Her : Hey, why didn't you say hi to me at Church
Me : I didnt see you
Her : Liar
Me : I saw Jimmy and Stasi but I didn't see you
Her : Sure you did.
Me : Listen. Don't call me a fucking liar. I'm trying to sleep
Her : Please don't be mad at me
Her : Please
Her : Please

ARGH!