Got Something You Want To Let Out?

If you quit now then you are a failure. Keep taking the easy way out and you will amount to nothing.

I have an idea: take a nap, do some of your homework and don't go to parties that often. There'll always be other parties, set your priorities straight, education is extremly important.

Breaking down and crying isn't going to help or solve anything.
Calm down, relax then work :hugz:

 

If you quit now then you are a failure. Keep taking the easy way out and you will amount to nothing.

I have an idea: take a nap, do some of your homework and don't go to parties that often. There'll always be other parties, set your priorities straight, education is extremly important.

Breaking down and crying isn't going to help or solve anything.
Calm down, relax then work :hugz: [/b][/quote]
I Fully Agree.

 

If you quit now then you are a failure. Keep taking the easy way out and you will amount to nothing.

I have an idea: take a nap, do some of your homework and don't go to parties that often. There'll always be other parties, set your priorities straight, education is extremly important.

Breaking down and crying isn't going to help or solve anything.
Calm down, relax then work :hugz: [/b][/quote]
Took the words out of my mouth.

 

same here...
thank god it's the end of the week, I barely survived this past few days, so much work has been on my head...

I'll do what you all said to Holly...

thanks...

 

Hey guys. First time poster, long time reader here. Yeah lol. Whatever. The point is, I've read this entire thread and I gotta say I love it. Itz like gettin psycologic help for free. Some of u guys are just as good as psychologists. Really. Anywayz, I just wanna say that I went through some shyt at one point in my life too. My brother was really popular and I was more or less at the bottom of the social totem pole and it sucked. It went on for a hell of a lot of time too. I even seen a guidance councler. Did it help? Not at all actually. And I have had suicidal impulses, but that was over a year ago and now im perfect. What Im tryin to say is that no matter how hard life get's, it's life. Time heals all, you know. It's true. And I know that I never went through have the garbage you people have had to put up with. But some of it I have. For example, I have never had a girlfriend. I know there are people I could get with, but Im not really into them. Quite personally, it is my belief that the whole girlfriend/ boyfriend controversy is stupid anyway. I've never seen a couple in High School last for more than 5 years. I admit, I'd love to have a girlfriend, but I think i'd get sick of it anyway. I live in a place where there are very few people who arent into drugs, beer, and sex. I admit it- I'm not. I'm not a prim or nothin, but I just dont want to skrew up my life, and neither should anybody else. I have friends who are doing it constantly, but what they do on their time is none of my concern. As for suicide, it's not worh it. I know it's been repeated an insane amount of times but, hell, I'll say it again- It's not worth it. When you have the suicidal impulse, turn on some music and go to sleep. That's how I got through my problems. And, if for some reason you cannot do this, go to a private place and wait there till itz safe to go to bed. THERE, Im done. Wow, itz long. I know im a newbie and whatnot, but I love being able to help people, especially if I expierienced it. God, I hope I didnt break any rules, lol. And if I did, sorry in advance. And now I leave- :hugz: to evrybody.

 

No, you didn't break any rules.

Great first post. Welcome to the LPA.

:hugz:

 

I'm in love with my best girlfriend. Like love.

We've kissed a couple of times, she's out in Bancroft and I'm here in Carleton Place (3 hours difference).

I miss her so so much.

 

I'm in love with my best girlfriend. Like love.

We've kissed a couple of times, she's out in Bancroft and I'm here in Carleton Place (3 hours difference).

I miss her so so much. [/b][/quote]
Neil is such a lucky guy, and im so jealous

 

i think everybody is agienst me!
mabye its a school conspiracy

 

my poor friends :'(

Mark and Dale tood a trip to CA cuz Mark's brother has Lukemia (sp?) and is probly gonna die this week. they are trying to get him in the ground by the end of next week. he is 21 and has been diagnosed since he was 17. its so sad. they bought him a car and he never got a chance to drive it cuz of the disease

anyway, Mark is taking it WAY hard and him, his family, and Dale are all spending all of thier time at the hospital, so none of them get any sleep and the stress just builds and builds..

to make things worse, Mark's g/f, back here is Reno, is being sucidle cuz her mom isnt gonna let her see Mark anymore. grr what an idiot! he doesnt need that shit now!! grr :angry:

then poor Dale. he has been so supportive of Mark, he is at the end of his rope cuz of all the lack of sleep, freking out best friend, and stress. then today he got called by his ex saying that he is the father of her baby! she has been pregnant for 6 wks and is gonna get an abortion in a week and a half.

he was so upset. i mean 17yr olds shouldnt be having kids, but still it is a really hard thing. she istn giving him any say in the matter, i mean i understand, but this is just more shit on top of EVERYTHING! he is so upset.

he called me today, saying "i need somone to talk to." at the end of the conversation i compleatly understood, damn i feel bad.

then he wants me, but wanted my best friend frist. he never really got over the rejection type thing that happened (long story) and she really liked him for a while. so i dunno. i like him a lot...he's kind of a feak, but i still like him

i dunno if its a good idea thoug. i dont want her to get mad at me. then he lives w/ my friend Nate too. we have been friends for 4 years. he has liked me for like 2 years. i dont like him at all that way, and told him flat out that i never wanna be w/ him, yet he still thinks that i want him. he is dillutional.

i told my best friend that Dale wanted me, and she said that if i did anything w/ him Nate would never talk to me again. that would be REALLY fucked up since he has gone out w/ TWO of my best friends and tried to g/o w/ my current one! he has no ground to stand on to be mad at me! grr...

then im wondering if she said that cuz she doesnt want me to do anything w/ him cuz she liked him a lot. ya know, that jealous thing... but she says she doesnt care...and she shouldnt cuz she has been g/o w/ her b/f for 6 months...but she does care.

so grr......

my problems are paltry and small compared to Mark's and Dale's. i wish i could help them.

 

ahh! GRRR

i was posting (above) and it didnt do it, so i pressed it again....grrr....

anyway, i didnt mean to. sorry.

 

My God! I am so sorry for u. Is it 100% sure hez gonna die? And as for that Nate person- fuck him. You dont need people like that in your life. If he cant be your friend and let you go out with who you want, he shouldnt be your friend. Thatz jus childish and immature for him to be getting on with. Anywayz this shyt is gonna take a while to get over, so I hope that you and your friends will be able to get on with life and not dwell on the past. :hugz:

 

I think I really like someone...and it sucks
I'm always the close friend which happens to be a girl, blegh.

Prly: I've got a shit load of homework too, but don't quit! :hugz:
Use the weekend to relax and finish alot of your work so you'll be more relaxed on weekdays.

linkin_park_fanatic_4_u: We aren't psychologists, we've just been through alot of stuff and share what we've learned :hugz:

Holiday: ... :hugz: This won't help but I'm truly sorry.

 

This might seem insignificant to some of you guy's problems but a few nights ago my boyfriend called me and broke up with me. He said I was selfish and self centered. He still wanted to be friends though and i couldn't say no. He was my first boyfriend and be went out for 3 months. I miss him. Then last night he called and cussed me out and hung up on me. He wouldn't answer the phone. He told me to stop telling people that he broke up with be because of the selfish thing because he said that people were judging him. I cried and couldn't eat. I wanted to throw up but i couldn't. He's talking to me again though and i'm starting to feel better. BTW about the throwing up think before we started going out i would make myself throw up after i ate because i thought i was fat. I still think i'm fat but i fight the urge to throw up. I feel SO much better now.

 

Hey Kris :

I just read your post and I thought I should reply.. They way your ex dumped you is beyond me. If he couldn't do it to your face then he isn't a man at all.. Always keep your head up and keep strong. Cause there is pleantly of other people in the so called :.. life ..:

take care :: blaine *~

 

hehe thank you for the hugz

linkin_park_fanatic_4_u: yeah, its 100% that he will die. he has a virus in his brain and countless other problems. its really sad and i feel bad.

hehe and ty, ur right, if Nate s gonna be an ass, its not really worth it.


grr life is so hard sometimes...

 

Holiday...You have much bigger problems than i do but just so you know there's a lot of people here for you and always someone to talk to. :hugz: I think that's really awsome that your trying not to hurn any of your friends. Believe me I know how hard that can be. Hang in there!

 

aww thank you

hehe

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i have been feeling really weird lately....i like cant get mad at anyone....haha i guess if there are any side effects, this is a good one. lol!

 

Exactly! Look at the bright side! I know it may seem like there never is, but there is always a bright side to every situation!

 

Glad to hear that you're feeling better!




...that's what you meant to say, right?