Got Something You Want To Let Out Part 2

Thanks I appreciate it, i'm just having some trouble sorting things out. I don't think I've ever been attracted to another girl before now and now that I realize it, I'm at a loss as to what to do...I don't know if it's just this one girl in particular or I don't know.

 

You should just wait it out then, maybe it's only a crush. Have you only been attracted to girls till now or also guys?

 

no I've been attracted to guys, I just recently got out of a 3 month relationship with a guy. The physical attraction was there but the emotional attachment? not so much. I'd figured that it was better to just be friends with him and not lead him on if I don't feel like he does. My friend who I'm crushing on is bi and unfortunately for me, promiscuous which is making that little green monster in me come out. I'm trying hard to get over it but it doesn't seem to be going away.

 

I think it's important that you listen to yourself though. Being bi isn't a bad thing at all, in fact, it makes you feel more free (in my case that is). If I were you, I would just wait it out, maybe it will go away or maybe it will stay. Just, don't be afraid you know, there's no reason to be afraid of your own feelings, you just have to learn to accept them.

 

Thanks, hopefully this crush goes away cuz there's nothing worse than that cliche "unrequited love" scenario. But you're right, if it doesn't go away then there's nothing else to do but accept it. I guess it might not be so bad to explore other things which in my case is girls. lol

 

Yup, you should go out and explore girls. It will give you a good answer.

 

lol you sound so sure of that I might actually believe you....

 

How do you think I found out...?

 

lol how did you find out? if you don't mind me asking....I mean did you just take it in stride or did you have problems accepting it?

 

I had no problem accepting it to be honest, I'm very open. I went to gay/bi clubs, it's fun and exciting. You should try that too, maybe together with your bi friend? You have to be old enough though ofcourse.

 

yeah, I guess I"ll try it, I don't know why I"m having such a hard time getting out of that whole "shy" thing when it comes to the gay/bi thing because I don't have a problem with it in the sense that I have gay/bi friends both male and female.

 

Perhaps you just have to get used to it, it's kinda overwhelming ofcourse. You'll be fine though, just sit back and try to have a good time!

 

lol True. Again you're right cuz that's all I can do for now. Thanks for the advice, that helped a lot.

 

Anytime babe.

 

i've made out with 3 girls within the past 3 days. i've never felt like a whore before, but this is doing the trick. and the sad thing? i thought i liked the first one. she's too clingy and emotional. second one is an emo, but i do have feelings for her. and the third, well, we both knew seeing each other was just going to be sexual.

oh, and they're all my ex-girlfriends. woo! <_<

 

The friend I've had the longest in several years, and been able to talk to no matter what, even if it was just about stupid stuff, won't talk to me anymore. I dunno if it's something I said, or something I didn't say, but no matter what, she won't answer my emails or IMs.

 

Exams start next week... & we start with maths...of all the damn subjects in the semester....

 

Wish you luck!

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My two first exams went pretty good... Hope i'll do good again tomorrow! *crosses fingers*

 

Shit I'm buying my first car tomorrow...

 

Life is a dance, and I'm horrible at it.. I need lessons for sure.