Discussion in 'Serious Chat' started by Todd, Apr 2, 2007.
Let me just say Amen to this.
*sigh* I dunno, I really don't anymore...
Couldn't have said it better myself.
I originally had this whole post typed up but I'm just going to say this:
I do not believe that any of you should hold your lives in the balance of a pill that could or could not work. Having a child is life changing and therefore you can be damn sure that I will always wear a condom until the day I choose to have a kid.
Keep this in mind: My friend used both a condom and birth control and she STILL got pregnant. Perhaps you may want to consider that before you have unprotected sex next time. It's incredibly risky and could result in an early parenthood.
She used a condom AND birthcontrol and you're calling that 'unprotected sex'? Or am I reading it wrong? It's like you're pointing out you can better not have sex because you can get pregnant no matter what. I'm sorry if I'm a bit confusing here, I'm very bad in typing my exact thoughts out in english. =/
No I'm saying that just depending on the pill isn't enough always as my friend used both a condom and pill and still got pregnant.
So what I'm trying to say is, have the man wear a condom too because just going with the pill doesn't always promise you wont get pregnant. Heck even using both can still be dangerous as you can see.
Well yeah, but no matter what kind of anti conception you use, there's always a risk of getting pregnant, but I see your point ofcourse.
I mean you can obviously do whatever you want, I just would always wear a condom myself until I wanted to have a kid. I wouldn't want to do that to Andrea or myself.
You could always just pull out.......
What about precum.
Just make sure you have a rag/napkin close by... things can get messy.
I say rag or towel...napkins or toilet paper cleaning things up is a load of crap.
Jeez Derek...thats got to be one of the unluckiest sex stories I have ever heard, the condom broke and the birth control failed??? Was the girl taking it correctly?
I will have to agree with one thing though, if you are not willing to accept the risk of pregnancy...however small it is...and you don't have a plan with your gf in case it happens...perhaps you shouldn't be having sex at all. Hell you could have the girl chart out her ovulation patterns and only have sex on the days she is not likely to be ovulating, then use a condom, then use birth control, AND pull out...but there is still that tiny tiny possibility!
Okay, thank you. Those were my thoughts I wanted to type before but couldn't explain well.
If I ever get pregnant, I will never ever get an abortion, in my opinion that is cold blooded murder. So if I'll ever get pregnant we'll put it up for adoption, and I can't even imagine how hard it must be to let it go, but to kill it is something I'll definitely never get over.
I regret having an abortion for the fact that it was an abortion, but I don't think I could ever handle carrying a child for 9 months and then giving it up.
I'm either not getting pregnant, or keeping it.
That's what I was thinking, and what my boyfriend and I do..
You use anti conception anyway, right? o.o
I guess we're lucky..and stupid. But we're always careful, like, we always have sex right after my period ends. Like, the day after. But still, stupid, now that I read all this, I just never really put much thought into it. I mean, I'm not naiive, I just never, I dunno, considered maybe?
..That sounds absolutley ridiculous.
Wow...I strongly advice you to use anticonception babe, even from precum you can get pregnant. I'm glad nothing happened to you yet then.
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