I thought that there was an advice thread already.. I guess not. I couldn't find one. Uhm.. well. How about either give a problem and be open to various veiws on things, or give advice. Since I made the thread.. I'll give my problem. Here's how it goes. Not sure what kind of advice I'm looking for.. maybe someone to agree or dissagree with some of what I've said ^^.. Not sure. I just think that what I did was right and she had no reason to get mad. . .
I know it kind of sucks to hear, but sometimes you just need to distance yourself from supposed "friends." But you said she's moving in two weeks, so the way I see that's a nice easy way to grow apart with out too many hurt feelings.
tell her how you feel, its the only way, even if it hurts. mind you...i have a bad temper...so that probably isnt as hard for me
This person reminds me of a friend of mine. Lately she's been bugging the heck out of me. Thank goodness school's almost over. Like twicethetrouble said, you might need some distance. Have you told her how you feel? That might help a bit. Hope everything works out!
The only advice I can give you...is that taking advice from people on the internet only makes things worse.
It's true people can say whatever they want on the Internet . However, there's some people who know what they're talking about, but how can you tell? That's the problem.
Sam, I'm going through something VERY similar to your situation right now. And believe me, I know how hard it can be. Often they make you feel like you've done something wrong when you definitely haven't. If they're going to be like that, then distancing yourself is the best thing you can do for yourself. If they're unwilling to listen, or admit when they're wrong then it's damn well near impossible to make them see otherwise. Believe me, I know from experience.
*curtsies* Aah, that never ceases to amuse me. Trust Nessy with this one Sam, she took the words right out of my head. She's very wise that Lock Nessy.
Well my parents have promised me they would listen to me more. I've made it quite clear that my voice was never heard when it came to me needing somthing of imortance. I'm not talking about me wanting a toy and them having to agree and allow me to have it no matter what or anything.. all i'm asking is for them to stop treating me like i'm a three-year-old. I definently feel like they treat me like one. Like one time my Dad was talking to my older brother Drew.. he's about to tell him somthing but then he stops and says "No wait nevermind I'll tell you later. Anya's in the room, she's too young to hear it." I absolutley hate that. I'm fifteen and next year when I go off to highschool i'm going to have to see a video tape of a mother giving child birth (I'm not looking forward to that either but oh well that's not my point..) I'm sure that whatever he says, i'm old enough to hear. Even my brother agrees with me, he doesn't treat me like my age. Also- another thing I guess I should add. My Dad forbid me one time to see this PG-13 movie called 'Dirty Work' because of a scene in there that I was supposedly too young to see. My brother rolled his eyes and slipped me the video tape to me when my Dad wasn't looking and I watched it later that night. The thing he 'didn't allow me to see' was two dogs humping eachother. I'm tired of his #### and he allways gets angry at me when I try to speak my mind, but he never listens. I'm fifteen for gods sakes, two dogs humping is apart of human ####### nature. It's not like I haven't seen them do that in Scary Movie Three. I've seen people make that same joke in sevral movies. Also last night my Dad yelled at me for staying up late to watch a movie. Number one, there was nothing for me to do tommorrow so I figured i'd sleep in and enjoy a movie. What's wrong with that? I watched it until three in the morning and my own Mom agrees with me that it's not bad if I do that once in a while as long as I do it in a responsible way (and I do do that by the way). But to him, he thinks i'm too young to do that. It's the god damn summer for gods sake, why can't I? I need some serious help because nothing I do is working and i'm tired of it. If any of you could help me i'd appreciate it..
It's true people can say whatever they want on the Internet . However, there's some people who know what they're talking about, but how can you tell? That's the problem. [/b][/quote] Exactly!