I think that you can use MSN, but in the meantime try to see her and talk directly... use msn for about 2 days...but then find something you both like...and ask her out!!! don t use the word "date"...... For example, if she plays an instrument and you play it too, say you have to go at the music shop to buy something, and ask her if she would come with you... if she s interested, she won t say no...and if she is the right girl for you, it will be a nice date.... i m sorry, my english is really bad, but i hope you ll understand what i mean...