Aww baby, don't worry. I know you were saving alot of courage just for today, and it's a big dissapointment for you. But I'm sure you'll catch her this week, or else, next week. So don't you worry, okay?
John, I told you already.... Just wait until I go there ...I pretty much agree with everybody else's comments, but I know you are shy around her, so it's def going to take some time. Hm, girls always like to be given compliments, so that's the best way to go oh, and don't worry, you'd find the perfect time to talk to her even if you don't see her everyday, just hang in there a little bit longer and be patience. I'm sure she'd like you
i've been having problems talking with girls almost all my life... let's just say i wasnt too popular. lately all have changed. college is working out for me. in high school i used to like girls but didnt know how to approach them. now in college if i have a class with them is easier to start off a conversation. if not then i try to figure out what kind of person she is, so i wouldnt come out as a freak when i talk to her... for one girl i always saw her in the library reading on the same table. one day i sat across from her and pretended to be studying. on a blank paper i wrote "hi" and gave it to her... by the end i had her phone number. a usual i do is look at them and give them a humble smile from a distance. from there she notices me and i just go up to talk to her. another way to start a conversation is to stop and ask her politely and with confidence "do i know u from somewhere?" and just keep on convincing her that she was somebody i knew from long ago. she is gonna keep on denying it, there's the chance to ask about her... name and other info... before you go just tell them that you think she is pretty. smile. walk away.. that's about the best i could tell you. best of luck!
Not everything will go as you want/expect, always be prepared to jump at the perfect opportunity. Don't be so nervous because the girl doesn't know you so she has nothing to judge aside from how you present yourself, so present yourself as confident, not someone who just shit their pants. Keeping that in mind, Nike has the perfect slogan for you.
no man, we are in college and here we use cars,bus or train. if i walk home from school i'll probably get here in 3 hours j/k
Ah right, same here, apart from i like to walk takes me around 45+ mins to get home xD Ok, so you don't have any lessons with her, or walk the same way home, hmmm. Do you eat lunch the same place as her?
nope there are some cafeterias that i go to, or sometimes we cross the street and eat at subway. no i've never seen her eating @ school, this girl is like a ghost. so hard to find. *sighs*
Going slow helps. Whenever you walk to class and see her walking, smile. Then work towards "hey"....then "how are you?". But you can always go with "how you doin'?"
I know you don't really know her personally that well, but have you two got any common interests? That's how I met my girlfriend, I just randomly walked up to her, asked her if she went to a concert I went to, and it went from there .
Its not that hard, waiting for steve to come out of his class I sat down on one of the leather sofas, this lad was sat opposite me and I struck up a convo and I'm quite shy. Ok so there were some awkward silences, but we still chatted a little bit, he probs thought I was weird but meh. I found out what course he was on, but didn't get his name
Miaz- yeah that was pretty funny, u told me earlier on msn. Daniel- yeah but it's hard because i just see her so quick that i can't tell anything about her personality, unless she suddenly appears with an LP shirt or something Ataka- yeah going slow helps, smiling a lot of times to a random stranger, isn't that also weird?
Say this... "Nice shoes. Wanna fuck?" I used that on my girlfriend that I have now. I didn't fuck her right when I said that, but she thought it was funny.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Back on topic, I can't really help you. I've only been in one relationship in my entire life, and that lasted for three weeks. So I don't know what to say. The only way I even got into that relationship was simple, I messaged her on myspace saying that the anime she liked was cool. I've also been stuck on the same girl for over a year now, and she still won't go out with me.
Isn't that my line? --- Johnny, since your fucked and go nowhere that she goes or walks or eats where she does then i advise you to do like Aisha said and smile to her, but don't smile massively or else you'll look weird, just do a little shy smile and she might smile back
I'll be honest Johnny... You're best just going for it. I was gonna ask some girl out about 4 months ago or something but didn't and now she's with some other guy. It still pisses me off and I regret putting the chance off for so long that someone else took theirs. I'll tell you, it'll be a lot worse for you if you don't just go for it. Otherwise, you'll never know what could happen.