My girlfriend...

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    Omar A

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    My girlfriend just told me on msn that she has a tumor :( . And she's asking me to leave her before shit gets serious. Someone please help :'(

    I'm fucked
     
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    Anya

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    That's so sad. :(


    I'm sorry but if you ever need to talk i'm here for you. I'm a good listener. I think what your girlfriend is doing is for the best and i'm sure she means well. *hugs you* Good luck Omar. :hugz:
     
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    Omar A

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    Thanks Anya

    I'm just gonna go to sleep now and see whats gonna happen tommorow
     
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    Kæton

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    Sorry to hear that, dude.

    I'd say just be there for. If not as a boyfriend, then as a friend.

    Hope all goes well, man.

    Good luck with things.
     
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    Jila

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    :hugz:
     
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    Anthony.

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    If she says she wants you to go, it's cause she doesn't want you to share her pain, maybe cause she thinks you don't have to go through it. But if you feel like you can do it, like you can go through this with her, just stay with your girlfriend and help her.
     
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    Mark

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    In times like this, you need to stick by her and help her through it. What she's doing is very unselfish, but in a way I feel she's hinting in a backwards way that she really wants you to be near her. Sticking to your friends/girlfriends/boyfriend is one of the main and most important points of being a true friend.

    I'm really sorry to hear that. Lets hope she has a quick recovery.
     
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    Alacrity

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    :hugz: I agree with what Mark said. Just try to be there for her as much as possible. If you need to talk, i'm here.
     
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    Mechanical Christ

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    Just stay with her and be there with her. She will appreciate it.



    Oh, I hope everything gets better...this is so sad :( :hugz:
     
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    Glenn

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    Yeah, I also say stick by her side. Hope everything goes well with you and your girlfriend. :hugz:
     
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    :hugz:

    i'm so sorry to hear that, but i think that you ought to stick with her since its a difficult time for her now, regardless what she says.

    hope that she gets well! ;)
     
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    :eek:

    I say stay with her, I think that even if you're not with her anymore you'll still hurt to see her in pain. So you can better help her and be there for her :) I hope she'll recover soon!

    :hugz:
     
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    Mr. Benzedrine

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    I'm so sorry to hear that honstley, If i found out my girlfriend had a tumor, i really dont know what i would do, Im not tryin to bring this subject to me, but i really feel sorry for you, i dont know what to say to make you feel better,


    Just stick with her

    Good luck
     
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    Dean

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    I'm sorry to hear that. There's not much I can add to what has already been said other than my best wishes for her.
     
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    Evi

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    Help her as a friend then, I hope she'll be fine soon. :hugz:
     
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    Omar A

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    Thanks guys for your concern. There's nothing to do about it really but stay by her side since I really like her. We're both feeling better about it and i was really glad that she told me about the tumor rather than keep it away from me, so its all good :D .
     
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    Leslie

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    It's good to hear that things are going well. ^_^
     
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    Cal

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    I know how your feeling, ive been heartbroken a few times now, im so so sorry mate
     
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    Mechanical Christ

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    Good, that should be the way ^_^
     
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    *MoOn*

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    hey Omar ... don't be sad sure someday she will come back to u but try to be by her side if she felt lonly okz hope for ya all the best ;) ^_^ :hugz:
     

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