Problem....someone help

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    MaDd BoKo 03

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    K...since this is the general chit-chat section..i got a problem i think you guys might be able to help me....here it goes

    Look, im really deeply in love with a girl who has a boyfriend....she lieks me back but loves her boyfriend too..she is my best friend and im her best friend..I dunno how to get closer and i'll never give up..help me please
     
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    Rinkin

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    Wait till they break up then ask her out. You can wait... I've done it before.
     
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    i dated a best friend, we talked and socialized every single day until i asked her out, then it started to get really awkward and we rarely spoke, she avoided me sometimes. ever since we broke it off, we've gone back to the way we used to be, and it's never been better.

    if you like her alot, wait until they break up, and then ask her out. patience is a virtue.
     
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    well im a girl so ill give you a bit of advice from my side of view. you definetly should wait until they break up,because if she has to deal with two heavy relationships at the same time,shell be really stressed,and that can mean some bad arguments.and make sure you dont attempt to sabotage their relationship,because that can also lead to WWIII lol just give it some time,and im sure it will work out.best friends have a good shot of being closer to each other....i wish you the best of luck with her,and like LPFAN05 said,patience is a virtue :) good luck
     
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    Yeah...like everyone else has said...just wait until they break up...then you'll have to wait a while because she'll probably be pretty upset and things...but just comfort her and stuff...keep talking to her, because the more you know each other...the more you'll start to trust each other...

    and trust is one h**l of a factor in some relationships ;)

    (agony aunt Kat :p )
     
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    O, i didn't mention this but I tell her liek everyday how beautiful she is and how much i love her...and im not gonna try to break them up cuz i can't be happy if she isnt happy..so i guess waiting is the best thing to do...cuz you always have to wait for good things/ and ill wait forever for her
     
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    let me ask you something. does she love him a lot? and do you see that sometimes things dont work out between him and her? then you got a chance.
     
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    They started goign out dec. 27....then in february vaction the week of valentiens day they broke up twice..and got back...and some tell me he is really like not good looking..and i seen them in person not holding hands..and they dont even go to the same school....so they only see each other on friday n sat...where therfore i see her like 6 out of 7 days...she is a freshmen im a sophmore...umm she is beautiful....lol jsut thoght id add that..and i think she loves him but not as much as i love her..if u can understand that ;)
     
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    AHHHH...she talked to me last night...and we expressed out feeelings for each other..it went good...WHY AREN"T WE TOGETHER!!!
     
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    Dude! Be paitent. You'll get her.
     
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    I hope your right man ;)
     
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    What if I'm wrong? (Just a thought.)
     
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    Ahh me n her had a fight today..lol..what else is new my life sucks...it started off with me saying i love my trampoline..ne she goes yea (her boyfriend) has one too..so i was liek good for him..and she was liek fine then ugh bye damn...and i was liek right...waht did i do..and then i dunno big argument..i dunno what to do HELP!
     

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