So like the title says has anyone ever loved and lost? For myself me and my boyfriend broke up last night. We were together for almost 9 months. I still love him a lot. This is a guy that I would marry and have children with and grow old with. I don't want to talk about why we broke up since I'm still really hurt about it. Me and him have decided just to remain friends. This is like the 9th time we broke up, but this time is the last time we'll be together according to him. He told me to just think about the good times, but when I do I can't help but cry. How about you guys?
I've had one girlfriend, we went out for 4 months about. I'd liked her since the 5th grade (we went out last summer, and we're freshman). And finally we went out, I fell in love with her and supposedly vice versa, we broke up but we're best friends so hey.
Wow i feel real bad for you Product Ive had so many girlfriends and breakups its hard to say how many they all just last like 3 weeks and end up in a crash and burn in the end Im still lookin for the right person though.
I've been dumped many times. The funny thing is, I never had a girlfriend.... Don't ask how that's possible...
When I was in seventh grade, I had a boyfriend I was so in love with. we had been going out for two years...and then my dad pulled me oout of school abruptly...I never got to say goodbye....
that sucks! wow... and i thought i had it bad! at least i got to say bye. but wow that's really got to suck
that sucks! wow... and i thought i had it bad! at least i got to say bye. but wow that's really got to suck [/b][/quote] yeah...It took me three years to cope....
Aww, I'm sorry you broke up with your boyfriend. Relationships can really suck sometimes. Break-ups are the downside of every relationship. I've never had a boyfriend so I've yet to be traumatized.
I had this one girlfriend about a year ago, we lasted for a year and a half. She was the first person I ever loved, and all of a sudden she just stopped. I was really hurt by her, and recently (within the past 3 weeks) I find out shes engaged to her boyfriend of like 3-4 months. Pain right there.
I've never had a boyfriend But maybe that's a good thing, because I've never had to go through a breakup. My best friend has recently gone through a pretty tough one, so I can only imagine what a breakup must feel like. It does make me sad, though, because I'm lonely, but I suppose there's a time and place for everything.
A year or two ago, the guy I was with decided he could use me and get away with it. The rumors never stopped. Everyday I would hear about him and another girl, but he always assured me people were just jealous. So yeah, when I did find him with her, he just smiled and acted like nothing happened. That girl is now pregnant, so I'm actually happy I got away. Even still, I didn't wanna be with anyone for a long time after that. I went out with an awesome guy for almost a year after that, and we did everything together. He was my best friend. Then came the day he had to move away. 18 hours away. :chemist: He had to call me over the phone to let me know. He was crying so hard he could hardly talk. It was so sad. I haven't seen him since. But now, I've found the greatest guy I've ever met, so I'm happy again. B)
i had one boyfriend last year... i liked him for 2 years before, then i went out with him... the infatuation ended and i broke up with him... after three weeks. he still really liked me, and i would always avoid him.... now we talk and stuff, we're kinda friends.... but i knew that i hurt him... it hurts me when i think about it. and i dont know, 2 weeks ago or something, my crush asked me out, i was really sad, because one of my friends liked him too, i didnt want to lose the friendship, so i said no to him.... he now avoids me, and that makes me sad.... because i really like him...... argh, im such a bad person.
I was going out with this guy for about 8 months. The day I found out he was moving to a place about 5 hours away from here was the worst day ever. This happened in 2002/2003. I still miss him a lot... but I’ve had other boyfriends since. They were nothing compared to him...
im sorry your boyfriend broke up with you... it really sucks. but think about it, it seems really hard now, but you wouldnt merry the guy anyways... i guess you'll just get over him. i had one boyfriend we've been going out for 7 months... i broke up with him cos i didnt feel like going out with anyone. but anyway, he moved to africa afterwards and didnt even say bye which REALLY PISSED ME OFF. after all, it was 7 months. l but you get over it, it just takes some time, dudes.
i feel sorry for u... i cannot tell just how u feel 'bout this guy or how sad u feel over the break-ups but it seems to me that u feel terrible 'bout it... i'd not advise u to forget him but to accept the situation as an experience that would add up to ur history... *what am i talking about!* - humm, not a good advice! ok, pass... i've been in the situation before... it's like six times now, i guess... (it was either me dumping him or he'll be the one who'll dumped me, so it's a win-win situation... ) it's always a short-term relationship... the longest is over a year but ended three months later... i guess i'm just boring 'coz i am easily bored myself in a relationship... i dunno why... but the first is always the strongest-one... yes, this guy, i really admire him that until this moment i can barely forget him... he's someone a girl would definitely wants as a husband... ( ) sometimes when i'm alone i feel like he's there, watching me or is there, beside me... well, i sent him letters, telling him that i really adored him and luckily he wanted to meet me, so we had a talk... the friendship went fine until one day when i felt that something must have been wrong that i started to "stray away" from him... it wasn't something about him that scares me away but because of his friends that kept putting ideas on his head of not getting any closer with me... (i guess, this is why i'm afraid of being intimate with someone...duh) without explanation, we went our own way... i never contact him eversince we last met... i thought talking to him would make me sad then... i dont feel like being with someone at the moment...
yeah, neither do i, really. the thing is, you have to remember, he isnt the last guy you'll like or love in your life... try looking at it from a positive side, like harley said. you'll be that much stronger next time.
stand tall, brace urself... u'll be fine 'coz of the lovely insides of u... there r people who care for u...