Stalker issues/problems

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    SamohtCela

    SamohtCela The Only Thing That's Worse Than One is None

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    Okay, so last year I met this girl that went to my middle school. I liked her somewhat but she became really obsessed with me. A month later, i told her that I needed my space cause she literally like messaged me everyday on myspace or try to call my cell. Then, she starts making up a bunch of lies about me to my friends and trying to ruin my life. To present day, this shit is still going on! I blocked her numerous times on various sites like Myspace and Facebook but she keeps making new accounts and keeps adding me. I tell her to stop but she won't. She's getting to the point where she is starting to have her friends adding me and asking me why did i cause all this drama. When she was the one who started it all! I need some serious help guys!
     
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    Dean

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    I've had stuff along similar lines happen to me but it seemed to blow over without me really having to do much. I dunno. If it's happening predominantly on those sites maybe you should try reporting her to the staff if you haven't already.
     
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    SamohtCela

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    I've reported her numerous times on those websites but somehow they never deleted her off.
     
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    Zak

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    Go to her and tell her to stop. If she doesn't go talk to one of her friends and ask them.
     
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    Heavy is the Louis

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    Find her and tell her to stop. If she continues, report her to the police and get some sort of restraining order against her. If she won't leave you alone, you've got to make something happen.
     
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    Amanda

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    I've been stalked twice in my life. Threatening to get the authorities involved is usually enough to do the trick. Tell her you'll have her charged with harrassment.
     
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    How old is she? If she's a teen, dude just talk to her. This is just infatuation-obsession boy problem. Honest and direct mature talk could solve the problem. BUT if she's completely paranoid about you, talk to her parents and in worst case, report her to the police.

    But I honestly think talking to her is the solution. I think there are probably situations and words that you have said that she completely misunderstood. Y'know!? Anyway, Good luck!
     
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    Meryl_

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    I agree with everybody, try to talk to her, if she doesn't understand go to the police!
     
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    hawk

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    I agree with this.
     
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    travz21

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    Just hook up with her one time and see how good it is. Maybe it wouldn't be such a bad thing having her in your life.
     
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    Call the authorities if she doesn't knock the fuck off. She clearly doesn't get the hint that you don't want to be with her, and has become obsessive.
     
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    You should stalk her.
     
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    hawk

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    LMFAO. She'll probably all the police first in that case.
     
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    SecondCityKids

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    I've never had a stalker before :/. At least one that lasted awhile
     
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    Jordan

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    Just ignore her and her friends and whatever. Should be easy to explain to your friends that she's fucking crazy.

    But if that doesn't work...

     
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    Gloomy Mushroom

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    Restraining order?
     
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    travz21

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    Good idea. Listen to this guy.
     
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    Dean

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    She's not really making the best case for her being kept in his life. Even taking the whole stalking angle out of the equation, all that potential for clinginess is a bit of a dealbreaker.
     
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    Gloomy Mushroom

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    We're giving advice not endorsing promiscuity.
     
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    travz21

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    I'd say she seems clingy as it is right now lol. Might as well give in and see how it goes. Maybe she just needs to get it out of her system. At least that's what I'd convince myself for a one nighter and end up waking up to breakfast in bed and plans for our wedding the following week.

    On second thought, don't listen to me. These types of girls scare me.
     

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