Got Something You Want To Let Out Part 2

They can't blame you, and you shouldn't blame yourself. You're too young for that sort of burden and you wouldn't necessarily have known better in regards to what to do. Plus, obviously, you're not the one who ran away. Why did she do that, anyway, if you don't mind going into more detal? If she wants to run away from "everyone" then everyone who falls into that bracket needs to look at what they might have done to upset her instead of letting someone shoulder the guilt by themselves.

But yeah, getting that other kid to admit to having knowledge of what she did would be a good start.

 

Well tonight, which is usually a very quite night, I was very busy.

The story:
My manager is on a weeks holiday and the other supervisor was off tonight so I was the next in line.

Ok so work started and everything was fine, half way roughly through the night around 11 I get Gordon one of the doormen saying that there's two women who keep trying to get into the ice room (We keep a lot of the vodka bottles, crates of beer and etc in there as well), so I went upstairs and they were completely hammered and seemed as if they were joking so I just asked him to keep an eye on it, about 10 minutes later I get 3 doormen from downstairs rushing and pushing to get upstairs so I followed and the two women along with some lads had gotten into the ice room and were trying to steal the bottles of vodka which are worth a lot of money so then the police came in and they were arrested. The police hadn't left the building before I had some random guy coming up to me and telling me some guys are doing some dodgy things in the toilet, so I go in with a doormen and some guy is trying to sell pills to two teenagers who barely look 16 and so the club has been fined for letting in and serving underage drinkers.
So to wrap up in one night, had people trying to steal, people dealing drugs in the toilet and a big fine for underage drinkers, I then got annoyed and had to talk to all the bar staff at the end of the night and tell them from now on to check everyone for ID so we don't get fined like this again. Great, going to love telling my manager all of this. :S

Also if anyone was wondering it's £560 fine to the club for having underage drinkers on the premises.

 

I thought it was going to be that they were doing other "dodgy" things in the toilets haha.

 

Same thoughts here love.

 

It's a bit of a complex situation why she ran away. She's really not enjoying life right now, and she seems to have some idea that all her problems will be solved if she runs away to europe.

But they got her and brought her back. They said she'd be back at 12, which was an hour ago. I feel fucking horrible now though. I don't think anyone blames me anymore. But i'm still really confused and have no idea what to think. Hopefully i can talk to her sometime soon.

 

So are you worried that she'll be upset at you for telling them?

 

People who believe Zeitgeist make me sad.

 

I'm extremely embarrassed.

 

haha, this was shown to my class 4 weeks ago and everyone thought it was real.

@fox what happened?

 

@Johnny:

Hmm, so my boyfriend's parents found out we are having sex, which we start doing it so almost a year ago, but anyways, thing is my boyfriend's parents are extremely religious, especially his mom and we don't really know how they found out. My parents know I've been having sex for a while and they have been supportive and understanding about it as long as I use protection, which we have. But idk, my mother in law is really making a big deal about it, which I understand, but she kinda feels the whole sex thing is my responsibility and I'm the one who "forced" his son to do it. I'm just in a really unconfortable position where I can't even go to my boyfriend's house anymore because I'm afraid that my parents in law would think I'm doing something wrong everytime I go over their house and I feel ashamed of myslef somehow and just plain embarrased that my presonal/sex life is out there for anyone that desires to know about it :/

 

Well for whatever's worth, his parents should know by now that it takes two to have sex, if they are gonna be upset at anything they should be upset at him and not at you. It's stupid to believe that you "forced" him, even if you did they have to be more upset at him because he gave in. I don't think you put a gun into his head and made him have sex with you. yeah i understand that you feel unconfortable around his parents, you can take some time off and not go there but eventually you are gonna need to meet them sometime, at your boyfriends house or something, don't worry a lot about it. They are gonna have to understand and they are not gonna be mad at you forever, and at least you used protection.

 

lmao, the "gun part" made my day
But thank you very much, dear. And you're right because like you said, I'll have to face them sooner or later. I just wish they would try to approach the subject in a less accusative way.

 

You're welcome.

 

I'm supposed to actually be gaining weight, because of my height. Technically, I'm at an unhealthy weight right now. And the numbers keep going DOWN. I'm not hungry most of the time, either. WTF is going on right now?

 

This whole situation with my boyfriend's parents is getting out of hand and it's making me feel worse by the second.

 

Hmm.

Explain first why you say so!

@Fox: Ori!!!

It's Your personal sex life with him .

It might suck to have their parents be suspecious of you, but do know that you or your bf needs to confront his parents and explain that it's none of their business, and that he knows full responsibility of what he's doing.
It might seem mean, but remind him that it's His and Your personal Responsiblity and that it wasn't forced.

And talk to your mother in law about it too. To stop her from telling everyone who wants to know, and that it'll Embarrase/offend you.

 

So. What am I waiting for?

 

Not really. But yeah, things are much better now. I'm forgetting about everything that happened fairly fast and she's back and feeling quite a bit better.

 

JUST DO IT!!