Got Something You Want To Let Out Part 2

It just takes time, you need to build a strong foundation of trust. Time is of the essence.

 

I know, but fuck, I haven't done anything wrong. I hadn't seen my best friends for over a week, so today at lunchbreak, I hung out with them.

That made him fucking jealous. I have the right to be with my friends, I can't be with him 24/7, I don't want to. Yeah, I really, really like him, but I'm not gonna dump my friends.

 

Weren't you in love with him like...a week ago? Now you want to break up with him because he got mad about you hanging out with your friends once?

Doesn't really seem that serious to me.

 

I'm being let down by my let downs

 

I'm not gonna break up with him...I didn't say that. I'm just fucking pissed off at him going off at me when I didn't do anything wrong...

 

You did say that. Read what you said. "I might have to break up with him"

 

If he keeps being paranoid and jealous at everyone for a few months, yeah.

 

You just gotta talk to him. Some guys are a little possessive. You just have to tell him that your friends are important to you, and that he needs to realize that. I understand what you mean, but try not to get too upset with him. I can tell that you really like the guy, so just try talking to him calmly before you do something rash. And as I said before, it's also a trust thing. He got jealous maybe just because you guys don't have a strong bond yet, and he just freaked a little. Given time, you'll know each other better and form that trust, and things will get easier.

 

I used to get extremely jealous all the time when I dated my second girlfriend. I don't know why. I never did figure it out. It was sort of weird, because I didn't care that she was with her friends, but then it bothered me for whatever reason. Eventually, it got too much for her to handle, and we broke up (the first time). So what I'm saying is, don't give it a few months, because by then, you'll be so fed up with him that you're going to want to break all the bones in his body. Give it a couple weeks maybe, and see what happens. But there's no reason to put yourself through all that for as long as you're suggesting you're going to.

 

He's alive and well...

Well, physically at least.

 

An old flame has come back into my life. It's so out of the blue. I'm standing my ground either way. As much as I sometimes crave my past, it still kills me. We'll see what the outcome of this will be.

 

You didn't have to respond to it, lol. And yes, it is who you are thinking of. I'm not getting back with him. Remember a few weeks back I posted in RT's that someone called my cell and I had no idea who the missed calls were from? I found out the next day and it was him. I felt like my heart stopped, heh. He called to just see how my life was going and what I've been up to. We've basically have been getting caught up with each other's lives recently. Apparently he's single now, which is why I'm positive that's the real reason he called me. I'm not stupid, lol. I told him even though we had one hell of a past that I wasn't going to date him again. After all, he did cheat on me. He said he feels like a fucking fool. Don't we all.

...and because of all of this I've been acting out recently. Whether it's on the LPA or to my parents. They have no idea why and I'm going to keep it that way, unless my emotions and anger gets the best of me.

 

She said she was about to start I think.

I thought that was bad... Fuck.

 

Alright, I have a small problem and need to rant a little bit...

I went to the pool hall with a good friend of mine and someone who I haven't been friends with in a long time. We'll call the good friend A and the other B. Now, I've known both of them since the 6th grade and we were all pretty tight until me and friend B lost touch in the 8th grade due to him being really immature, but me and friend A stayed really close and we still are. Anyway, I hadn't talk to friend B for quite some time and haven't even heard what he was up to until he got locked up. I'm not completely sure but I know it's something that involves him and a 12 year old girl a few years ago.

Now, I'm not completely sure what the sotry is as I have heard MANY different versions. I feel it's not my buisness to know, nor do I want to know because I feel it's simply none of my buisness. Anyway, friend B gets out of jail about a month ago and friend A tells me about it and suggests I give him a chance and we all hangout sometime. I'm like, alright we can do that. I haven't spent time with him in quite some time, maybe he's changed, regardless of what he was locked up for. So we all go to a local pool hall last Thursday and had a really good time. I had never played pool before but I found it really relaxing and I enjoyed the time I spent with them and we planned to hangout another time.

So in comes freind C, another good friend of mine, or so I thought. I tell him about what I did that day and who I hungout with and immediately he's gets pissed off. I knew he didn't like friend B, but he did ask what I did that day and I wasn't going to lie. He starts tossing words around, calling him a sick pedophile and that I shouldn't be around him because people will look down on me if they found out I was out in public with a registered sex offender. I had told him I don't care what peopel think of me in general, so why would I care about that? Maybe he is, I dunno, but as I said I have no idea what exactly happened and it's none of my buisness and if friend B can be cool with me then I don't see a problem.

Friend C is still angry with me, telling me I don't understand and that I'm talking out of my ass. He goes on to say that if it had happened to my little sister that I would see it different. Well yea, but it didn't happen to me. Maybe the way I view it isn't right, but it is my opinion and as I have said I don't know exactly what happened. He still continues to tell me I'm talking out of my ass and that he doesnt want to talk to me, basically throwing our really[/] good friendship out the window over this ridiculous crap.

Now my uncle has been locked up since the early nineties for a rape charge. In this situation, no one knows the entire story. I have heard many different stories and I care not to choose one since I have no idea what happened. Now I told friend C when my uncle gets out of jail he's going to be a registered sex offender too, am I not supposed to be around him because of that? He then goes to say that's different because it's family, when in my eyes it isn't any different because I don't even like most of my family to begin with.

I know this is a touchy subject, but I just want some views on this. I'm going to the pool hall again with him tomarrow and a couple of my other close friends, and I plan to have fun.

 

If she took the pill, then it should be fine. Not 100% guarantee, but it should be ok.

What happens is the female body has this great defense system. Usually, after having sex, a girl will have to pee. This isn't always the case, but the majority of people I've talked to, plus my personal experience, shows that most girls have to pee after having sex. This removes a good portion of the semen. Plus, some of the semen actually gets absorbed into the vaginal walls. So there's the remainder which can live for 3 days.

When you asked did she say she was about to start, or when it happened.

If you just asked, there's a good possibility that it just passed by. However, there's a good chance she wasn't even fertile enough, as there has to be a specific body temperature you have to be at and all that stuff. Getting pregnant is a hard thing, but as I know, accidents can sure happen.

Either way, as long as she doesn't worry, she should be fine. Worrying, or any sort of stress, can delay a period, which could give her a false positive from the "did I miss my period?" test.

Hope that helped And I hope everything works out.

 

nah man it's not all about reputation at all, i know you don't care that's fine, your friend is giving you trouble because thats what friends do, he cares fot you safety. If the guy is crazy enough to do something to a 12 year old girl, what tells you that he can't do anything to you? your friends is just pissed because he wants what's best for you that's all. And also there's plenty of other people around so why waste your time hanging out with a pedophile? then if something crazy happens and your there with him and they know you guys are together then it's gonna be trouble for you, so man stay out of that's guy way.

 

It's not like I don't know the guy, me and him used to be really good friends in middle school. If it was some random guy I didn't knwo then yea I wouldn't be stupid enough to be around him.

 

When you were in middle school, did you ever thought he was gonna be able to rape a girl?