Got Something You Want To Let Out Part 2

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  1. Arlene

    Arlene Oh what tangled webs we weave LPA Super Member

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    Hmm, what I think, is that you need to, as some people have already said, drop some subtle hints, maybe catch her eye a few times and smile sweetly and really look at her. I can't stand it when guys feel that they can't make eye contact with girls, :lol:.

    Make sure you let her know that you're really sorry about everything that happened, although this sounds like it's a few weeks old, so don't bring it up randomly if she's happy and smiling. If she brings it up about how he's a jerk or something, virogously agree and let her know that you're there for her, for anything, because you care about her. *[insert eye contact/dashing smile here]*

    If you did something like that, I know that I would realize that you had something more than friendship in mind, and not being an ass hole about it. Just what I think.

    The best of luck, dear.
     
  2. Arlene

    Arlene Oh what tangled webs we weave LPA Super Member

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    Aw man, I'm so sorry dear. I hope they're okay. :hug:


    ...damn drunk drivers...
     
  3. Todd

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    Hit it and forget it :lol:







    Disclaimer: Any relationship advice provided by me should not be taken seriously, as proved by the fact that I am currently single
     
  4. Dean

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    Thanks everyone. She's okay physically but he injured his neck somewhat, although apparently it isn't serious.
     
  5. esaul17

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    For some reason I just got some horrible feeling that she was going to get back together with her boyfriend.

    I swear as time passes, my confidence just plummets. If things go as planned I still have almost a week to wait (and if she did get back with her bf then I might not see her again at all).

    I hate this.
     
  6. Daniel

    Daniel Run for your life. LPA Super Member

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    One finals exam down, three to go.

    At least history was easy, can't say the same for Calculus tomorrow though. >_<
     
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    Car broke down what a piece of shit it is.
     
  8. Bleed-It-Out

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    Go for it :)
     
  9. esaul17

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    I get this feeling she is ignoring me....she had this phrase in her status on Facebook so I messaged her asking if she was doing okay and she signed out without replying...

    It is possible that she doesn't want to let people see her when she is in a bit of a mess (I mean, even if she liked me that would just give her more incentive to not talk a lot about her ex to me I would think...) but it still leaves me pretty worried.


    I don't know, I just remembered my ex leaving me last year and being alone in my room at residence falling apart and wishing I was dead and it just terrifies me to think she might feel the same now...




    Like I said, when I first finished seeing her on Friday I almost felt I had a chance...and now for some reason it all seems hopeless. Maybe I think about thinks too much or something...but my confidence can't seem to handle time alone with me.
     
  10. Harlz

    Harlz More Scared Of You Than You Are Of Me LPA Super Member

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    You only have four???

    I'll have 9 when I'm doing my HSC.

    Fuck our system!
     
  11. Harlz

    Harlz More Scared Of You Than You Are Of Me LPA Super Member

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    Flirt a little, but be there for her for now.

    Thats my advice in a nutshell.
     
  12. esaul17

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    Yeah....I just wish I could see her more :(. This Saturday I think will really make or break things.
     
  13. Daniel

    Daniel Run for your life. LPA Super Member

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    Farrrr out, I only have History, Calculus, Physics and English.

    What the hell subjects are you doing? :lol:
     
  14. Mark

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    *murrrrrj*
     
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    LPA!

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  16. esaul17

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    Wow...apparently I am so transparent she could shoot me down before I even asked her out.

    This kind of sucks.

    And man, I was telling all my friends how I liked her and stuff. Now I look like even more of an idiot.

    Fuck.


    This is just terrible. I've had to close my MSN so I don't go whining to everyone on my contacts list and look like even more pathetic.


    All I can think of are my ex's words "You're just fucking pathetic".


    I barely knew this girl and I'm being a melodramatic fool over her shooting me down when I should have known I didn't have a chance to begin with.

    And no one has to read this but this is the "Got Something to Let Out?" thread so I am just going to rant mindlessly.

    I can't believe I managed to actually be a burden to her by making her feel bad for shooting me down. Anytime I want to help someone I just become a fucking burden. It is pathetic. I feel like I'm going to be sick.

    I can't even imagine trying to meet any other girls now. Once you find what you want looking anymore seems so pointless.

    I still can't believe I barely bet her and I am feeling like that. I just don't know what to say about it.
     
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  17. Harlz

    Harlz More Scared Of You Than You Are Of Me LPA Super Member

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    English has two exams I think, Physics, Chemistry, PDHPE, Maths is in two parts, History, I might be forgetting something...

    So yea, sucks to be me! And everyone else in NSW! :lol:
     
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    OH OOOH!!

    Just heard that I'll be in Disneyland this weekend! I'm so fucking excited!! It will be all Christmasy and stuff!! (w00t)
     
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    I think I'm in a safe position. I'm not so far in to the point where I wouldn't be considered a candidate because I'm "too good of a friend" but I'm also not so far away to the point where she wouldn't give me a chance because I'm barely a friend. I'm sort of in the middle. If anything were to happen, I think it's safe to say I'd be the only guy she'd really vent to, besides her brother-in-law. Here's hoping things work out between them, though. They're an amazing couple, and I love that.
     
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    Hope you have better luck that I did, to say the least!
     
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