There's this amazing hot girl who goes to my college and i want to start a conversation or whatever i can get with her, but i don't know what the fuck to say since i don't know her, i don't take any classes with her and nobody that i know knows her. What would be a good thing to say without freaking her out? i'm planning to talk to her on wednesday real quick but when i was thinking about what i was gonna say i honestly didnt know. Suggestionsssssss please!! i would love to hear what girls around her have to say about this.
Next time you see her, just say, "Excuse me... I can't help but notice how pretty you are." Always works in the movies.
"Hey, I lost my number. Can I have yours?" "Hey miss, you dropped something...my jaw! Heh, heh, alright!" "I wish you were sin^2x and I was cos^2x so that we could be one."
Just start it off slow, as you walk past just give her the casual 'How you goin'" kinda thing, even if you don't actually enage in conversation with her. Just build up to something more, but you have to start somewhere. Or you could use this one "Are you a surgeon? Cause you’ve just took my heart away!"
I think you should casually find a way to get to know her first. It always seems kinda weird to have a guy you don't know, randomly ask you out. Sit next to her while she's eating lunch or something and try and strike up a conversation, or wave to her every once in a while and make it noticeable that you want to catch her attention somehow. I know this guy I dated for a while used to randomly wave to me every day, but that definitely caught my attention for some reason and I started thinking that he was kinda cute. Then we gradually started talking and he asked me to Homecoming and then we dated for a while. So yeah, just catch her attention somehow, talk and get to know her and then ask her out. That way she won't be too weirded out if she doesn't know you that well, you see? Hope my advice helps. <3
Excuse me, do you work at Subway? Oh, that's weird because you just gave me a footlong. LOL nono please do NOT use that one
Actually, you could just use a lame pick up line. It might actually just make the girl laugh and date you for actually attempting it. Not a vulgar one though, like Hahninator's. XD
A lot of the girls I've spoken to have said that cheesey lines can work. Mainly because it can be seen as really cute. I wouldn't suggest it though. I have the same problem as you generally but you've gotta push yourself to just go for it. The worst thing that can happen is rejection, if that happens then just admit defeat and leave her be. If you work slowly you can start to gain a friendship and then see if she's worth asking out properly. Otherwise, you could use some of the pick up lines that I've used in the past: "You'll do." *Insert kissing here* *I walk off on the girl then walk back to her straight afterwards* "Sorry, I forgot something..." *Insert kissing here* This is one of my favourite so far although it needs them to set it up: Girl: My friend thinks I'm a lesbian..." Me: Prove your not." *Insert kissing here*
Does my shirt smell like chloroform to you? ------- Well i have the same problem but i got a solution, first off, do you have any classes with her?
These are all great tips, although, my main problem is that most girls I find pretty and like to date I've known for years and years since kindergarten... so if I'd go up to them and use such a lame pick up line they'd just think I was crazy. Any ideas? xD
I have the same problem as most guys have admitted to, so I don't really have any advice. I have gotten better in recent years though, seeing as how I couldn't even speak to a girl that I had at least some interest in. But whatever I have tried hasn't worked. I'm 20 and I havn't had a legitimate girlfriend since I was 15. All I can say is just grab your balls and go for it, just make sure you let go before you actually get within 5 feet of her, though.
so many great tips here, thanks! and some funny pick up lines too (i won't use any of them) haha. and Tom, no i don't have any classes with her.
i didn't saw her today, i'm fucking pissed and frustrated, i',m not the kind of guy that goes randomly up to girls and when i decided to do it then i don' see her, fuck this shit.