Underage Sex, who has had it?

[Polychromatic]

I wanted to know how many people on the LPA have had sex under the age of 18. Don't share experiences please, just a simple thought.

[Jeff]

Not me. I'm still a virgin to be honest, which isn't anything to be ashamed of :)

[Polychromatic]

I have at 16

[Andrea]

I have. No regrets either.

[+ / –]

I had sex before my dad. True story.

But in all seriousness, I have.

[Joe]

Well, 16 is legal age in the Uk, so it's kind of odd to see people mention anything above that as under age, haha.

[Polychromatic]

Minus made my day hahaha. And I meant for US rules (if we have any these days) but okay still anyone under 18

[+ / –]

I make everyone's day. And when I was under the age of 18, for females, me making their day was exactly what this topic is about.

[Polychromatic]

Haha dude Minus you win this thread again.

[Louis]

I haven't. Not planning on it. Don't give too much of a shit.

[Polychromatic]

Why wouldn't you care? (not to say it's the only thing that should be accomplished in life)

[+ / –]

Why wouldn't you care? (not to say it's the only thing that should be accomplished in life)

Some people just don't care. Respect their opinions. It's a perfectly valid and respectable viewpoint in my opinion.

[Polychromatic]

That's why I put what I put in parantheses. I didn't mean to make it look as if he is less of a person, I just wanted to know why.

[+ / –]

What you wrote was open to interpretation, really. I apologize. It's hard to tell what anyone is actually meaning to say on the internet.

[Polychromatic]

It's okay, that's why I never catch your sarcasm. The Internet is the worst place to be sarcastic.

[+ / –]

It's okay, that's why I never catch your sarcasm. The Internet is the worst place to be sarcastic.

It's the best place to be sarcastic.

Back on topic though, I kinda wish I wasn't so promiscuous when I was younger.

[Polychromatic]

For me it just happened and I was like :awesome:

[+ / –]

For me it just happened and I was like :awesome:

It JUST happened? All recent and shit. Damn.

Nah but I mean, I used to worry about it a lot when I was younger. It was like, "Which one of you lucky ladies should get the honor of taking my virginity?" And by virginity, I meant my [insert year here] virginity.

No but seriously, they were all meaningless flings and one night stands.

[Timothy]

Whatever keeps those damn kids off my lawn is fine with me.

[Polychromatic]

Not JUST happened I was with my girlfriend and we just..you know.

[travz21]

This looks more like a brag thread to me lol.

[+ / –]

This looks more like a brag thread to me lol.

Like I need a single thread to brag on. :lol:

[travz21]

Like I need a single thread to brag on. :lol:

By OP, not you.

[Snail]

I'm 21, and I had my first experience when I was 14. I'm proud to say that I'm still with the same girl. *peace sign

[deftonesfan867]

Nope, and for whatever reason that surprises alot of people...

Probably because I'm somewhat of a whore :lol:

[Andrea]

I'm 21, and I had my first experience when I was 14. I'm proud to say that I'm still with the same girl. *peace sign

That's awesome! :)

[Jeff]

I guess I stand alone . . .

[deftonesfan867]

My first experience however was with the woman who eventually became my wife and then exwife however.

22nd birthday ironically.

Got married on year later to the date.

[Jeff]

My first experience however was with the woman who eventually became my wife and then exwife however.

22nd birthday ironically.

Got married on year later to the date.

Well, not totally alone then :lol:

[deftonesfan867]

Yeah I wasn't cool enough in HS :lol:

[Benjamin]

I guess I stand alone . . .

I'm 16 and I have no plans to have sex until I have a GF who I get to know really well. Unless if College screws things up :lol:

[Polychromatic]

This looks more like a brag thread to me lol.

Haha i disagree

[Nicotine]

Lost my virginity last year when I was 16, but I had many sexual encounters before that.


I'm 21, and I had my first experience when I was 14. I'm proud to say that I'm still with the same girl. *peace sign

Woah that's good, congrats man! The longest I've been in a relationship is about 2months. I can't stand them, too much commitment that's why I have a casual sex partner right at moment.

[iNuBBiN]

I guess I stand alone . . .

Naw i just turned 18 and havent. Its not like i couldnt because trust me i could, but i dont wanna do it with some random. Honestly i dont care enough, im not a douche looking for sex nor am i a weirdo who cant get it. I am just chill and it doesnt bother me

[Ryo Hazuki]

I didn't even have my first kiss until I was 18. So yeah. :lol:

[Jayhov]

Did when I was 15. It was the day after my birthday actually haha.

[travz21]

Random BJs > random sex any day. Takes about 2 hours less time, same result, no STDs. Have sex with someone worth your time and worth your weener.

[.Amanda.]

I lost my virginity at 16 to a guy I loved (at the time) and who I honestly thought I was going to be with forever.


Times change...

[Snackman]

Haven't.
Don't plan to.

[+ / –]

Same.


Actually, I just lost my virginity. Yesterday to be exact :P

Now how come after seeing your post in RT did I automatically know to come here? :lol:

[Arashi]

Haha, is it popping collar time?
B)
For me the perspective of under age sex and even pre marital sex have changed drastically since I was small to now. I have nothing in particular against it.

[+ / –]

All a part of growing up.

[Polychromatic]

I grew up 7 months ago

[travz21]

I'm against people against premarital sex.

[Polychromatic]

Haha Travz21 that's fucking brilliant

[Luke]

Random BJs > random sex any day. Takes about 2 hours less time, same result, no STDs. Have sex with someone worth your time and worth your weener.

I've got news for you dude, you can certainly get STDs from Oral. ;)

As for me, I lost mine when I was 18 (although had sexual encounters years before that) and I actually think I was probably too young. I've only ever slept with 2 girls and both were one-nighters...And to tell you the truth I wish I held out for someone I was in love with. That's strange for a guy right? Unfortunately for me, being in love with someone for almost two years and not having them return the feelings sorta stunted my drive to have sex.

I'm not against underage sex, but I do think the majority of young people rush into it. I don't speak from a wealth of experience, but I know I'd much rather have sex with someone I truly love than fuck a random stranger. That said, I'm not against one night stands etc at all.

[Jeff]

Anyone wanna help me get laid :awesome:

[travz21]

I've got news for you dude, you can certainly get STDs from Oral. ;)

When you're receiving, you have like a 1% chance compared to sex.


Anyone wanna help me get laid :awesome:

Find a divorced woman in her late 30's. Piece of cake.

[ShinigamiPWN]

I have.
I was 15.
I'm 20 now.

Ironically enough.. I just got back together with the guy I lost my virginity to.
Only been with 2 people, though. No one night stands with me. :lol:

[Luke]

When you're receiving, you have like a 1% chance compared to sex.

There's still a chance though.

Not that I'm against it...I've had more BJs than I have been laid.

[Jeff]

When you're receiving, you have like a 1% chance compared to sex.



Find a divorced woman in her late 30's. Piece of cake.

Someone my age :awesome:

[Polychromatic]

My first blowjob was at 14-15? Sex came at 16. Great times :awesome:

[travz21]

Someone my age :awesome:

Girls want it. Just give it to them.

[Louis]

Why wouldn't you care? (not to say it's the only thing that should be accomplished in life)

Because I figure I'll just make myself upset about past relationships and my current situation if I think about wanting sex or a relationship in general. I've just decided not to give a shit until the time comes. When that time comes, I'll come.

[travz21]

When that time comes, I'll come.

Zing!

[Polychromatic]

Hahaha Travz

[Andrea]

When that time comes, I'll come.

Well done! http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v602/Pecan603/Smilies/appl.gif

[Louis]

Well done! http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v602/Pecan603/Smilies/appl.gif

Thanks. :awesome:

But yeah, I dno. I mean, part of me is unsure as to whether or not I should wait until I'm married but at the same time I think it's alright if you genuinely feel you love the person. I'm not really into the whole having sex thing if you're not really in love with that person. I think I'd be okay with like, playing around or oral if it's not really that serious of a relationship, but, we'll see.

[_cam_]

This looks more like a brag thread to me lol.

Hahahaha. I concur.



But yeah, I dno. I mean, part of me is unsure as to whether or not I should wait until I'm married but at the same time I think it's alright if you genuinely feel you love the person. I'm not really into the whole having sex thing if you're not really in love with that person.

Awww...Romeo :wub:

[Rocky]

yeah but I didn't know she was under-age at the time though

[Jeff]

yeah but I didn't know she was under-age at the time though

:pedobear:


just kidding :lol:

[Luke]

:pedobear:


just kidding :lol:

:lol:!

[Andrea]

yeah but I didn't know she was under-age at the time though

2153

[Louis]

2153

:lol:

[travz21]

yeah but I didn't know she was under-age at the time though

Lucky.

[Dean]

In UK terms, I didn't.

[Timothy]

Same.


Actually, I just lost my virginity. Yesterday to be exact :P

http://www.esquire.com/media/cm/esquire/images/high-five-0808-lg-76258126.jpg

[[TDWP] Jacob]

I have... Probably more then should have with more people then I should. I lost it kinda young...yes I do regret most of them

[+ / –]

http://www.esquire.com/media/cm/esquire/images/high-five-0808-lg-76258126.jpg

In the words of Barney Stinson... NICE.

[Louis]

In the words of Barney Stinson... NICE.

Hypothetical High-Five.

...

NICE.

[+ / –]

Hypothetical High-Five.

...

NICE.

This actually fits as I'm wearing a suit to work today...

LOUIS! SUIT UP!

[Louis]

Oh don't worry, I suited in an unmistakably upward direction.

[Todd]

Suit to work? Fuck that. Jeans FTW.

[Louis]

Suit to work? Fuck that. Jeans FTW.

Slut up!

[deftonesfan867]

TBH sex becomes a bit overrated after a while.

Sometimes I like some "me" time. :lol:

[Polychromatic]

"Me" time? I'd rather "spend some time" with one or two of my female friends.

[Arashi]

http://www.esquire.com/media/cm/esquire/images/high-five-0808-lg-76258126.jpg


:shifty:

[esaul17]

I did at 17, but 16 is the age for Canada too.

[deftonesfan867]

"Me" time? I'd rather "spend some time" with one or two of my female friends.

Try getting it almost ALL the time.

Believe it or not you start to not crave it all the time.

[travz21]

Try getting it almost ALL the time.

Believe it or not you start to not crave it all the time.

+9000

[Jeff]

+9000

That is not over 9000 :P

[Polychromatic]

I would crave it still.

[deftonesfan867]

Never said I never crave it.

You just don't crave is as often.

[Harlz]

I lost mine two weeks ago... :O
But I'm 18, so it's more than legal here.

I'd like to point out that it was to the girl I love, who I've been with for almost a year and a half.
First time for her too.

[11:54]

Try getting it almost ALL the time.

Believe it or not you start to not crave it all the time.

This ninja speaks the motha fuckin troof.

As for me, lost mine when I was 21, and I'm 23 now. First time was with someone I didn't even like, and that was only once. The next 53257278675389+ times have been with the same person.

...:lol:

[Dean]

That is not over 9000 :P
1 + 9000 = 9001

[Arlene]

I did when I was quite young, which I regret.
However, I try to forget that, haha. Me and my boyfriend are now legal adults, and we've only had sex with each other. So we like to pretend that the underage sex-partners don't count, haha.

[SamohtCela]

I'm 14 and to be honest i had underage sex this summer. It was the worst mistake of my life.

[Polychromatic]

How was it the worst mistake? ^

[SamohtCela]

How was it the worst mistake? ^

You really don't wanna know.

[travz21]

But I do.

[Chris(tmas)]

But I do.
*raises hand* Same.

[SamohtCela]

*raises hand* Same.

really? you will kill me if i told you.

[travz21]

You're 14. As long as she was over 10, it's all good.

[Jeff]

You're 14. As long as she was over 10, it's all good.

O_O

[Rocky]

really? you will kill me if i told you.

unless it was rape, incestuous, or involves pregnancy and/or stds or stis you're pretty much good

[SamohtCela]

unless it was rape, incestuous, or involves pregnancy and/or stds or stis you're pretty much good

okay i'll tell you. i got her pregnant and the baby died in the womb. see biggest mistake of my life.

[travz21]

Condoms are a wonderful invention.

[Todd]

okay i'll tell you. i got her pregnant and the baby died in the womb. see biggest mistake of my life.

Hate to say it, but that's the best thing that could've happened. 14 year olds shouldn't be having kids.

Now I hope you've learned your lesson and will wrap it before you tap it next time.

[SamohtCela]

Hate to say it, but that's the best thing that could've happened. 14 year olds shouldn't be having kids.

Now I hope you've learned your lesson and will wrap it before you tap it next time.

I have learned my lesson and i'm not tapping anyone for a long time.

[Polychromatic]

I'm going to like next week :awesome:

[travz21]

How do 16 year olds plan sex like that? I imagine it in their daily planner.

Oct. 20th
Math homework.
English paper due.
Butt sex, facial.

[Polychromatic]

Because I'm the man. I don't have homework besides accounting.

[Dean]

okay i'll tell you. i got her pregnant and the baby died in the womb. see biggest mistake of my life.
That sucks fella. Sorry to hear it.

[travz21]

Sucks, but a kid would ruin your life at 14.

[F-ck Casey]

safe sex is great sex, better wear a latex, 'cuz you don't want that late text, that "i think im late" text.

lil wayne ©, 2008

[11:54]

Sucks, but a kid would ruin your life at 14.

Not necessarily.

[travz21]

It would ruin your teenage life. You couldn't live like other kids in middle school and high school. Probably no sports, no parties, no girlfriends. All you'd be doing is taking care of the kid and working to save up money. The child would be given the short end of the stick, too. It won't have an ideal childhood.

Unless you have very supportive and wealthy parents who have all the time in the world to take care of that kid, you're losing all of your years that are meant to be enjoyed before you go off into the real world.

[F-ck Casey]

Yeah, it would. Kids aren't meant to have kids, because they aren't emotionally mature enough to handle that kind of responsibility and stress. Fuck, I'm 21 and I'm not mature enough to even babysit a toddler, much less have one to call my own.

[Polychromatic]

It would ruin your teenage life. You couldn't live like other kids in middle school and high school. Probably no sports, no parties, no girlfriends. All you'd be doing is taking care of the kid and working to save up money. The child would be given the short end of the stick, too. It won't have an ideal childhood.

Unless you have very supportive and wealthy parents who have all the time in the world to take care of that kid, you're losing all of your years that are meant to be enjoyed before you go off into the real world.



Yeah, it would. Kids aren't meant to have kids, because they aren't emotionally mature enough to handle that kind of responsibility and stress. Fuck, I'm 21 and I'm not mature enough to even babysit a toddler, much less have one to call my own.

Pretty much nailed it.

[Louis]

Pretty much nailed it.

Agreed.

[11:54]

Oh, because y'all are speaking from experience, right? Not saying your points aren't valid, but it doesn't ruin your life. Social life? Okay, but not everyone is a partier. My fiance' had her daughter when she was 14, and virtually didn't have a mother or a father of her own to turn to, and she did just fine.

So unless you're speaking from experience, don't speak as if you've lived through it.

[Louis]

Oh, because y'all are speaking from experience, right? Not saying your points aren't valid, but it doesn't ruin your life. Social life? Okay, but not everyone is a partier. My fiance' had her daughter when she was 14, and virtually didn't have a mother or a father of her own to turn to, and she did just fine.

So unless you're speaking from experience, don't speak as if you've lived through it.

Give me your definition of "just fine."

[11:54]

Give me your definition of "just fine."

Has a roof over her head, supports her child, has a job and goes to school.

[travz21]

I have multiple friends who had kids in high school. One was a father when he was 15. He had it with his casual girlfriend of about 2 months. He was a pretty popular kid and one of the best wrestlers in the state. After he had his kid, nobody really saw him outside of school. That was 6 years ago. He joined the military when he was 18, now has a house, and lives with the same girl that he eventually married. He's 22 and his daughter is now 7. Sure, he's married and has a family, but would he really have married one of his first girlfriends had they not had a child? Maybe his life could have been much better had he done all the things he really wanted to do when he was younger. He could have gone to college on a scholarship, dated around a lot more, got a better job, experienced life before he had to buckle down and get serious.

There are some instances where the mother or father are so messed up and down a destructive path that the baby will actually save their life and turn them into something respectable, but most people that young aren't that corrupted by then. The vast majority of people are far worse when they have a baby underage. It holds them back from their full potential, well, because they have to give most of it to their child.

[11:54]

Like I said, you have valid points, and I agree with them. But you can't generalize everyone who has a kid young has it rough or ends up being a failure. That's borderline stereotype. 9 times out if 10 that does happen though, and I don't blame you for posting what you did, but also understand where I'm coming from, speaking from experience, that not everyone has it rough.

Great story though. It's nice to see people not give up after a mistake like that.

[Arashi]

I have multiple friends who had kids in high school. One was a father when he was 15. He had it with his casual girlfriend of about 2 months. He was a pretty popular kid and one of the best wrestlers in the state. After he had his kid, nobody really saw him outside of school. That was 6 years ago. He joined the military when he was 18, now has a house, and lives with the same girl that he eventually married. He's 22 and his daughter is now 7. Sure, he's married and has a family, but would he really have married one of his first girlfriends had they not had a child? Maybe his life could have been much better had he done all the things he really wanted to do when he was younger. He could have gone to college on a scholarship, dated around a lot more, got a better job, experienced life before he had to buckle down and get serious.

There are some instances where the mother or father are so messed up and down a destructive path that the baby will actually save their life and turn them into something respectable, but most people that young aren't that corrupted by then. The vast majority of people are far worse when they have a baby underage. It holds them back from their full potential, well, because they have to give most of it to their child.


See what you are focusing more on are how he's messing up on his life chances. Down the line, he seemed to have stabilized his life. I mean sure he could have done all the things he wanted instead of what he got but maybe that would have gotten nowhere.
I would never agree to parenting a kid when I am very young myself, like Casey said. But 11:54 has a point too, it's always easy to stereotype people in categories to have wasted their lives but that is not always the case.

[travz21]

Give me some examples where someone under the age of 18 has improved their life potential after having a kid.

[Arashi]

I can't because I don't know anyone who did. I know you want to turn this into a debate, but I agree with what you have to say, I'm just not crazy about stereotyping. You are talking to a newly inspired amateur socio/anthropologist here.

[travz21]

I don't see how it's stereotyping. You have a kid, you have less time to live your life the way teenagers are supposed to. People don't have children when they are under 18 and achieve more than they originally would have without out a kid. When you're spending time on your child, you're also spending less time on your development as a person. Whether that be less schooling, less social life, less whatever. The only way it doesn't detract from your life is if you wanted the child in the first place and weren't aspiring to be anything more.

[11:54]

So how exactly is a teenager today supposed to live their life?

[[TDWP] Jacob]

It DOES change your life but not always in a negative way. If you look at less social life as a terrible thing then fine but it isn't the worse thing that can happen. Just saying

[danielakatoxic]

Interesting thread I suppose... Lost it at 16. Fooled around at 15.

[cstebila]

Yeah, it would. Kids aren't meant to have kids, because they aren't emotionally mature enough to handle that kind of responsibility and stress. Fuck, I'm 21 and I'm not mature enough to even babysit a toddler, much less have one to call my own.

I don't know if thats a good thing.

[Jeff]

I don't know if thats a good thing.

I think its good that he is admitting that he still has to mature enough to even have a kid in the first place, and that's why he doesn't have any kids now.

[cstebila]

Thread has a terrible title.

[Polychromatic]

Thread has a terrible title.

No it doesn't.

[cstebila]

No it doesn't.

Sorry if that was rude, what I mean is, it just doesn't seem to convey or capture the essence of the thread very well. Underage sex sounds so...idk.

[F-ck Casey]

I don't know if thats a good thing.

Thank you for your input in this conversation. It's meant a lot.

And for what it's worth, even if I was mature enough to have kids, I wouldn't. Because I fucking hate kids.

[cstebila]

Thank you for your input in this conversation. It's meant a lot.

Sorry if I was rude. I was having fun with you Casey, and the thread title doesn't seem inentirely appropiate for whats in the thread, its my opinion I must admit, sorry if it came across rudely.

[Polychromatic]

It pretty much sums up the thread. People who can honestly admit to having underage sex.

[cstebila]

It pretty much sums up the thread. People who can honestly admit to having underage sex.

The word "underage" is probably where I would contest my point. "Underage sex" sounds illegal. Two people having sex before age 18, I don't see how the appropriate term is under age. But I digress, it doesn't matter much to me, so I'll leave my explanation at that.

[Gloomy Mushroom]

16 is the age here for legal sex and 18 for everything else.


Of course I'm a virgin. bullshit.

[ShinigamiPWN]

16 is the age here for legal sex and 18 for everything else.


Of course I'm a virgin. bullshit.

Hmm. Of course, it all makes sense. The stork brought that cute baby of yours to you. ;D

[Theazninvasion68]

Virgin.

I guess there's only 2 in this thread..

Hm.

[Dinobot]

Dude, you're 19, no big deal. I was a virgin until I was 20 and honestly, when it happened I felt like an idiot for putting so much thought into it.

[Gloomy Mushroom]

Just because you have a baby doesn't make it the end of your life, that's a very bad stereotype. I know many young mothers who have 3 yr olds and themselves just have turned 18. And she's actually achieved more than me right now. I'm 21, I have an 8 1/2 month old, does that mean I've wasted my young adulthood? Surprisingly, a kid makes the majority of women grew up in the 10 months you're pregnant (not 9). The minority rather would go on acting like 12 yr olds. I was technically pregnant a week before my 20th birthday so technically I was still a teenager. But Mia hasn't ruined my life, I'm happier than ever, and I am so happy she added that sparkle in my life I never had. I've just got myself a job, I'm about to do part time study. It is possible to have a life and still have a family. I say, after losing my virginity at 16, I say to all the virgins, keep it and appreciate it.

[Xero21]

Lost it at 17.

Though honestly, the whole idea of virginity is about being pure.

That is to say, if you're getting blow jobs in the back of a movie theatre and fingering chicks, TECHNICALLY you're a virgin, but...I wouldn't really call you pure either. The idea of virginity doesn't translate as well to recent times.

[Nick]

I lost my Virginity when I was 17, this past summer.

[Timothy]

Lost it at 17.

Though honestly, the whole idea of virginity is about being pure.

That is to say, if you're getting blow jobs in the back of a movie theatre and fingering chicks, TECHNICALLY you're a virgin, but...I wouldn't really call you pure either. The idea of virginity doesn't translate as well to recent times.

Hah. That reminds me of those purity-pledge girls who take it in the tailpipe, because, obviously, it "doesn't count."

[Xero21]

Hah. That reminds me of those purity-pledge girls who take it in the tailpipe, because, obviously, it "doesn't count."

Exactly.

[Polychromatic]

Hah this stuff is pretty true.

[@LP2K12]

Lost my virginity at 12. Yes, 12. It was stupid and all due to a dare. However, I'm glad that the girl and I are still friends and I was smart enough to go to an adult to make sure it was safe.

You'd be amazed how many teens/pre-teens are pressured into stupidity. When I met my now wife, I became really close with her family. She has a family member who lost their virginity at 13.

[travz21]

I once penetrated a vagina with my entire body, not just my penis, when I was 0.

[@LP2K12]

I once penetrated a vagina with my entire body, not just my penis, when I was 0.

You, win the thread. Although, I think it was supposed to be serious. Still, thumbs up.

[D-rock]

I once penetrated a vagina with my entire body, not just my penis, when I was 0.

:awesome: :lol:


I was 13



Giggity

[John]

Virgin here. I'm not waiting for marriage or anything, i just haven't met someone that i feel like i wanna do it with.

[sotrix]

I'm 16 and I have no plans to have sex until I have a GF who I get to know really well ...
Kinda obvious to say 'I'm not gonna have sex until I have a girlfriend' ... but I digress. Oh and the best sex is not "planned" ahead of time.


... part of me is unsure as to whether or not I should wait until I'm married ...
What (sane) woman would MARRY a man she hasn't had sex with? If I was a women and heard that I'd think you had some sort of serious medical problem. Would you at least let her see you naked?


... He's 22 and his daughter is now 7 ...
Luckiest girl in the world!

[travz21]

What (sane) woman would MARRY a man she hasn't had sex with? If I was a women and heard that I'd think you had some sort of serious medical problem. Would you at least let her see you naked?

These are my thoughts as well. I don't get how people can plan on living the rest with someone if they have no idea how good the sex is. I'd imagine those marriages end up failing just as often as the rest.

[Dean]

I'm likely going to get some toolish response for pointing this out, but not everyone is preoccupied with sex and it doesn't have to be a priority in a relationship. I think that's pretty simple and easy to comprehend.

[travz21]

I'm likely going to get some toolish response for pointing this out, but not everyone is preoccupied with sex and it doesn't have to be a priority in a relationship. I think that's pretty simple and easy to comprehend.

Maybe not new relationships, but in marriages it is. If it's not, the wife/husband gets it from somewhere else from another outlet. Like 90% of marriages without sex are either miserable, have cheating involved, or both. Even regular girlfriend/boyfriend relationships are like that. More relationship sex = more smiles.

[Gloomy Mushroom]

You don't have to have sex to show people you love them, really. I know some tool guys tried to tell me otherwise (oh where are they now? Jail for having sex with a minor). But I do agree with Dean and his statement does not deserve a toolish reply. I mean, some people vow to abstain from sex (like a good friend of mine) for not only religious reasons but also personal.

[Luke]

Actually ALOT of people abstain from sex until marriage.

It's disrespectful to start questioning someone's sanity on this basis. There are several reasons both religious and personal for not wanting to have sex until marriage, and although I personally don't believe someone should have to wait unti they're married to have sex, it's admirable that some people actually adhere to this principle.

Hell, it's only in the past 50-60 years or so that sex before marriage was even considered normal. Intercourse out of wedlock was frowned upon and still is in various places across the world.

[El Muerto]

Maybe not new relationships, but in marriages it is. If it's not, the wife/husband gets it from somewhere else from another outlet. Like 90% of marriages without sex are either miserable, have cheating involved, or both. Even regular girlfriend/boyfriend relationships are like that. More relationship sex = more smiles.

So true..

[Rohit LP]

Virgin here. I'm not waiting for marriage or anything, i just haven't met someone that i feel like i wanna do it with.

same here...me 17..

[deftonesfan867]

Nothing wrong with waiting, but if you do get married and no sex happens then someone either has had a trouble passed or they feel nothing for the other person.

Only a fool would think love and sex have zero relation.

[cstebila]

I was just reminiscing about that which relates to this topic around 4:30 AM the other day/night.