I need your help

[Unforgiver]

i have this friend that has problems with his dad, he sent me a message that maybe he will kill himself, i ahve talked to him, but he keeps finding more excuses to end his life, i am trying to convince him not to, also other friends are helping him. I think i have nothing else to tell him to help him, i need your help :(

[越南]

Whats his dad like?
Maybe you should have a talk with his dad , unless hes the abusive type..
Or maybe you should seek the guidance counselor at the school for help on these situations.
dunno what to say , i've never been in this situation before , but good luck trying to convince him.

[Unforgiver]

Originally posted by DJHahn@Nov 30 2004, 06:38 PM
Whats his dad like?
Maybe you should have a talk with his dad , unless hes the abusive type..
Or maybe you should seek the guidance counselor at the school for help on these situations.
dunno what to say , i've never been in this situation before , but good luck trying to convince him.
i have told him all that already, his dad is as mean as the devil :(

[Runawy]

He should get help from a guidance councilor or someone... or move out, away from his dad, but I know that may not be possible... Just continue to show your support to him, let him know he has friends that care a lot for him and can help him through hard times... It's not worth it to throw your life away like that... problems have to go away eventually right...? I hope so anywayz... Well I really don't know what else to say, but good luck with your friend. hope everything turns out alright and you can convince him not to kill himself.... Laterz.

[Omar]

Seriously: call a suicide hotline number or tell your school counselor. Don't just support him because when people get that depressed words can't keep him alive, and someone with the authority needs to be there to help him.

[Evil Angel]

Originally posted by Omar@Dec 1 2004, 05:42 AM
Seriously: call a suicide hotline number or tell your school counselor. Don't just support him because when people get that depressed words can't keep him alive, and someone with the authority needs to be there to help him.
Absolutely agree.You need to act fast.Just inform your school/college counsellor and tell him/her about this.Your friend needs professional help

[Unforgiver]

'k, i will do what you have told me to, i hope he doesn't end his life.

[Razan]

My cousin did the same and commited suicide but for different reasons...I couldn't help...I feel like shit.

Sorry.

But I think calling the school counselor is a great idea and the school counselor could call her dad or someone with higher authority who can help.

[Neil]

Originally posted by UN4G!V3R@Nov 30 2004, 06:34 PM
i have this friend that has problems with his dad, he sent me a message that maybe he will kill himself, i ahve talked to him, but he keeps finding more excuses to end his life, i am trying to convince him not to, also other friends are helping him. I think i have nothing else to tell him to help him, i need your help :(
Get help asap. If he ends his life, you'll find a million reasons why it's your fault, and how you could have prevented it. You don't want that and neither does he. So get him help now.

[Runawy]

Originally posted by Neil+Dec 1 2004, 01:40 PM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Neil @ Dec 1 2004, 01:40 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin--UN4G!V3R@Nov 30 2004, 06:34 PM
i have this friend that has problems with his dad, he sent me a message that maybe he will kill himself, i ahve talked to him, but he keeps finding more excuses to end his life, i am trying to convince him not to, also other friends are helping him. I think i have nothing else to tell him to help him, i need your help :(
Get help asap. If he ends his life, you'll find a million reasons why it's your fault, and how you could have prevented it. You don't want that and neither does he. So get him help now. [/b][/quote]
Couldn't agree more.

[Ztarduzt]

Originally posted by x_BroknDream_x+Dec 1 2004, 02:06 PM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (x_BroknDream_x @ Dec 1 2004, 02:06 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by -Neil@Dec 1 2004, 01:40 PM
<!--QuoteBegin--UN4G!V3R@Nov 30 2004, 06:34 PM
i have this friend that has problems with his dad, he sent me a message that maybe he will kill himself, i ahve talked to him, but he keeps finding more excuses to end his life, i am trying to convince him not to, also other friends are helping him. I think i have nothing else to tell him to help him, i need your help :(
Get help asap. If he ends his life, you'll find a million reasons why it's your fault, and how you could have prevented it. You don't want that and neither does he. So get him help now.
Couldn't agree more. [/b][/quote]
me too

my girlfriend has a bad father too.. and I don't know what to think of that.. he also sais our education suffers under our relation and stuff like that.. he get's really mad when she has an 6,7 out of 10 on english (her best note on english this far) saying that it is too low and she can do much better, and that she can't go on msn anymore becouse it is bad for her education and there are a lot of virusses on msn (there aren't any!!) and stuff like that..

well, good luck with your friend, and i hope that it works, and otherwise.. let me talk to him, i already talked someone else of suicide...
good luck

[越南]

Originally posted by Ztarduzt@Dec 1 2004, 04:49 PM
my girlfriend has a bad father too.. and I don't know what to think of that.. he also sais our education suffers under our relation and stuff like that.. he get's really mad when she has an 6,7 out of 10 on english (her best note on english this far) saying that it is too low and she can do much better, and that she can't go on msn anymore becouse it is bad for her education and there are a lot of virusses on msn (there aren't any!!) and stuff like that..

I think thats just being strict , not bad..

[Razan]

Originally posted by DJHahn+Dec 1 2004, 09:58 PM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (DJHahn @ Dec 1 2004, 09:58 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin--Ztarduzt@Dec 1 2004, 04:49 PM
my girlfriend has a bad father too.. and I don't know what to think of that.. he also sais our education suffers under our relation and stuff like that.. he get's really mad when she has an 6,7 out of 10 on english (her best note on english this far) saying that it is too low and she can do much better, and that she can't go on msn anymore becouse it is bad for her education and there are a lot of virusses on msn (there aren't any!!) and stuff like that..

I think thats just being strict , not bad.. [/b][/quote]
I agree,
I don't think it's bad unless he slaps her and screams, "YOU ARE A :censored: " or something along those lines.
Reminds me of someone.

[Mechanical Christ]

Originally posted by Spiked+Dec 2 2004, 04:39 AM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Spiked @ Dec 2 2004, 04:39 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> Originally posted by -DJHahn@Dec 1 2004, 09:58 PM
<!--QuoteBegin--Ztarduzt@Dec 1 2004, 04:49 PM
my girlfriend has a bad father too.. and I don't know what to think of that.. he also sais our education suffers under our relation and stuff like that.. he get's really mad when she has an 6,7 out of 10 on english (her best note on english this far) saying that it is too low and she can do much better, and that she can't go on msn anymore becouse it is bad for her education and there are a lot of virusses on msn (there aren't any!!) and stuff like that..

I think thats just being strict , not bad..
I agree,
I don't think it's bad unless he slaps her and screams, "YOU ARE A :censored: " or something along those lines.
Reminds me of someone. [/b][/quote]
Ah, :hugz:


Serious, you should quickly take action before he does something drastic. Otherwise, it'll be too late. I've had a lot of experiences where I came too late and regret it until now.

[Unforgiver]

he decided not to pull the trigger ^_^ :) :D

[Razan]

Originally posted by UN4G!V3R@Dec 11 2004, 05:29 AM
he decided not to pull the trigger ^_^ :) :D
YAAY!! (w00t)

How? Was it because of you or your friends? Did something happen? Did his dad die?

[Unforgiver]

Originally posted by Razan+Dec 11 2004, 07:27 AM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Razan @ Dec 11 2004, 07:27 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin--UN4G!V3R@Dec 11 2004, 05:29 AM
he decided not to pull the trigger ^_^ :) :D
YAAY!! (w00t)

How? Was it because of you or your friends? Did something happen? Did his dad die? [/b][/quote]
he stays/lives in a friend's house, that's what he told me, his parents don't care anymore and he let him live there, he is happy now. Because i was his friend, he promised not to (and promised other friends he had he wouldn't). :D

[Messy Marj]

^_^ Good to see that it worked out pretty well

[Danielle]

Thats really good! See being there for someone can really make a difference.